I m in the weirdest situation ever.. one of my close guy- friend likes my girl-friend. But she has a bf and he doesn?t know that cuz he is new in our state. He told me he likes her and I promised him I wont tell her or anyone else unless he wants me to. Nether does she wants to tell anyone that she has bf and I promised her too that I wont tell anyone. As me being a good promise keeper I cant tell both of em whats going on. I am stuck in the middle cant break my promise cant keep my promise ?????.
To be continue what happens lets see?

Sonia,

Tell that guy that your friend might have a bf. Just give him hints.

hehe came for break and wat do i see re kya ;oP..

anyways sonia..dyam!!kya tauko dhukney kura share garcha bhaney!!:o| ;oP hehe

personally speaking if i was ur fren..i would prefer u to tell me that "there is no chance"!!!dun even give me the slightest hope ke :oD...for wat?alikiti hope dhekcha ani pheri saab ko tauko ghumcha :oD..urs..and both ur frens ko :oD...u dun need to tell anyone she has a bf ;o)..just tell him..since ur close to her..u know the type of guy she would want to be with..and tho he is a 'nice' guy(arent we guys always 'nice'?;oP hehe) he just aint the type..of to be even more 'clearer' tell him..she already likes another guy(liking and having a bf is diff ;oP hehe)...and well add that she isnt ready if not she would be with that guy she likes(just add more things like that guy is after her and well she just doesnt wanna have a bf now..)so he will get a clear idea where he is 'standing' :oD...

if u can save some tensions for ur frens..sheesh do it re kya ;oP hehe..well hopefully not bring more tension..cos smtimes tho we have good intentions..the results just doesnt come the way we want hoina?:oS hehe..

anyways thats me opinion hai..at least 'prepare' him for the worst re kya hehe..well wat are frens for hoina?;oP hehe...la la enuf ofpsychiatry 101 hehe...i seen too many 'lets see' before :o| kya daarlagdo end huncha ho :o| seriously if we can do smthing about it..why do we still go on 'seeing' :o| hehe

and in the end even if all ur effort to 'save' him, doesnt work..well its his own decision from there ni ;oP..tara why give hope for smthing that 'logically' aint possible hoina?hehe...

ok enuf of break and bhak bhak..good luck to ur fren ..i kinda can 'feel' for him re kya..and sheesh!!not feel that way hai ;oP hehe...

good day :oD..

or you can just tell him that he might want to find out if she is single an available.

something like that.Just say it casually!

uday bro...

watcha know..typed at same time ;o)....

we are 'linked' now re kya ;oP...hehe oh well..its done!!cant be undone re kya ;oP hehe

well ...hope sonia ko bheja does work ;oP..and understands wat we are tryn to say here..good luck to her fren (that guy hehe):oD....he might not know he might be caught in a hurricane soon..and that too which he cant handle ;oP hehe...

anyways good day :oD...

oops this is weird i tell u :o| lucky we didnt get 'linked' again!!!hehe...

didnt realise u be typing more ;oP...anyways good luck to soniaa ko fren :oD..and to us all too re kya ;o) hehe


and soniaa frenship comes with 'responsibilities' save ur fren...even tho he might have given u 'tensions' too many times(since u did say close fren hehe)...sheesh!!enuf of preaching !!! ;oP hehee


good day :oD..

*gone*

sonia,
just have him read this thread...
send one email with this link...say its a nice discussion here...
he'll get it for sure...:-)
and u didn't tell him...he'll read himself...

Lol neupane you seem to be someone very sneaky huh ? :p Sonia tell the guy to ask himself, damn teti ni garna nasakni kasto hola...:) She sure wouldnt not bite him. :) In such things it is always wiser to step back. He will manage it...

यो अर्कालाइ किन बिचमा ल्याम्ने यार!!! एकचोटि म नि पर्या थें यस्तै बिचमा, दिक्क बना'थ्यो २ जनाले!!!
आफु आफु कुरा मिलाउन् न , आफेलाइ सोध्न भन न!! टेन्सनै सखाप!!!
लु दैबले प्रेममा पर्नेको भलो गरुन्!!!....:)

IF he doesn't get it even after reading this thread, then suggest him to dye his hair blonde.

Thanks you guys for suggestion but I have no idea what to do its getting worse. Well I told him to tell everything to her and get over it and he also knew she was gonna say no to him anyways. Unfortunately he wanted me to tell her everything and I said okay and I know that was stupid thing ever. And she was like you know I have bf so why r u telling me this and all? neways she said NO to him obviously but damn he is not accepting the fact. Her relation with her bf is not going smooth and I don?t think that?s the right guy for her but yet she is willing to compromise her life for him cuz he (her bf) has suffered a lot in his life so she doesn?t wanna break his bf?s heart. I know its getting kinda complicated. Back to my guy- friend and gurl- friend whenever I see them both together I always felt match made in heaven. They r so alike and so perfect for each other. She also told me that if she didn?t have boyfriend then she would definitely have said yes to him.
He wants me to convince her that, that guy is too far away and her love is only sympathy for him and she is in self-denial. And she wants me to make him understand that she loves her bf and cares about him and doesn?t wanna hurt him? well again I am stuck in the middle. I think both of them are right in their own places. Both of em are my really good frenz they think I am genius and all so I can solve their prob but I am not and I cant. Both of them expect help from me and I don?t want to take anyone?s side and if I don?t help them they r gonna get mad at me???. well anywayssss guysssss help me out.. What shall I do? I feel bad about him he is such a tough guy now he is all shattered and told him there are many other girls but he won?t listen. I wish everything were back to normal.
LLL

Get out of midway Soniaa....If U get stuck U ll be stuck down to the puddle of mud...
Yeah!!! I Know U care for frens...But these are personal matters and solved at the personal level, not through a middle man....Let them SOLVE this not you!!!!
But just think, what if tomorrow after getting together for one year or two, they GET OVER each other and blame you for making their life miserable...Well I have been to such misery...I lost frens, I lost faith in it!!!...Well Its your choice, to be or not to be in a mid of misery, But Beleive me, If u get out of it right now, U won't repent later on!!!
Just my two cents!!!....:)
Nirman~*

Yeah soniaa,

Get out of the way. The guy might get the girl, girls already has a boy. she might opt in for another part-time bf. But the question is what you gonna get from this ordeal??? NOTHING.

So, move B, get out tha way get out tha way.

yeah i guess u guys r rite... i try to step back but they keep on involving me in it... and he already started blaming me grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.... well i m moving back no matter what..........

Wise move....Good girl :)