I have problems with relationships.I should say that I am a quiet person and it takes me longer to open up to people.Whenever I meet other nepali people,I just say hi and smile and don't talk a lot.This way people think that I am cold and arrogant,and before getting to know real me they start ignoring me.I am a friendly and sweet person,but I just don't know how to break the ice.If you guys have any techinque on how to approach warmly then please do post some suggestions.

hmmmm!!
dont get frustrated....it happens.
looking all those thing u said i wanna ask u smth...
do u play games??are u intersted in sports...not like chess,video games etc etc.i mean basketball,football ,swimming etc etc.?
anyway..this is happening to u coz u lack self confidence.dont think abt what people will think if u say smth...are u scared if someones bully u or make fun of u?? being reserved and enjoying it is different but being reserved and getting frostrated shows lack of self confidence in u.
why do u feel everyones ignore u???why do u feel they think u are cold and arrogant??coz u feel it urself.
concept nai tyahi banaunee ho bhanee taa who will see u are friendly bhanera if u dont show them what u really are?!!hoina ra.....bholi dekhii hasne ani hi bye garne hoina:@
kura garnu man lageko cha bhanee kura garnee anii man chaina bhanee nagarnee usle k bahncha usle k sochha bhanera sochne hoina:@:o)

show them how friendly u are.how sweet u are.....build up some confidence mr:o)go and play some sports.....u lack fun in ur life:) fun is very very neccessary to build up self confidence....

anyway thats all i wanna say...u can crack ice after u crack wall of reserved attitude u have.get rid of that fear which u have deep inside ...u know what i mean:o)

i am sorry if i offended u...
as a fren to sweet and friendly batash...which i am sure u are:o)
ruIna

Nice suggestion Ruina..mero bhannu kehi chhaina thap..i just support Ruina ji...yeah Batash ji..build up self confidence..and go for it..

well i guess chettrni ko suggestion is also good!!

show them how friendly u are.how sweet u are...........
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Like one and the only HARKEDAI hoina ta ruina jee.

batash

If someone makes fun of u, u reply them in the same way.
Getting bored with ur life. try to have humur in ur life.
Every one ignores u, u ignore them before they do so.
Just live ur life as it comes.
Don't be desperate to make frens, expecially when it comes to girls.
Be open like me and u will have lots of frens like mine.

ruina jee le bhaneko jasto basketball pani khelnu kya. i hope it helps.

Like one and the only HARKEDAI hoina ta ruina jee. ................>>>>
how can i deny:P LOL harkeydai.

Arey, hamro ruina jee le swikar garnu bho, malai ta pugyo hau.

Dhanya baad nadi kana rahana sakdina ma ta.

dhanyabaad hai hajur.

hmmm I am just a silent reader here , but Ruina's suggestions amazes me, u GO RUINA

u GO RUINA...................>>>>>
where?! lol...
just kidding:)

today is friday night... so you dont know where to Go RuIna jee... just go for hang out and chill with friends dine with wine... heheheh


Happy FRIDAY

wiz_kid
k ho hajur lai ta friday khub lageko jasto cha ni:)happy! happy! dkehchu...
anyway milyo bhanee batash lai pani lagera janu la;)

wiz kid lai friday night hoina morning nai laageko jasto cha. Wiz kid jee, k garidai cha ho, firday night ma testo ? Jaad khaane ta hola ni, tyo mula jaad khaana friday nai kina aaunu paryo ra ?

khoi batas bro kaha bata malai kehi thaha chaina.... ke garne 5 din kaam gare pachi aaune Friday ma, yeso sathibhai sanga basera thatta garda, pool khelda ya movie nai herna jada pani ta ramailo huncha ni ..... anyone is INTERESTED, they can come its GTPS ta honi ;)))) ohh and you are also welcome if you are interested and live in DC

Harkedai....

monday dekhi aba 5 din aba 4 din bhanera ganda gandai aba 4 ghanta baki, aba 3, ani aba 2 ghanta aba 30 min bhanda ramailo ta huncha nai.... ani kura jaad khane bhanda pani sathi bhai sanga bhetera ramailo garda dheri maja aaucha.... tyo mula Jaad hoina harkedai.... Jaad bhanda pani ramailo ta get together huncha, basyo taas khelyo wa aaltu faltu kura garera base pani... malai chai testo lagcha pheri jaad khanalai friday nai kurnu pardaina bhanne kura pani sancho ho tara pani FRIDAY ko majai aarko cha kinaki aba 2 din no kaam no tension.... just RELAX

ohh and you are also welcome if you are interested and live in DC ....................>>>
thank u soo much....someone invited meh!!!i am sooo happyyyyyyyyyy:P
but sad to say..i just came from shopping and feeling very tired.
trust meh next time if we ever got chance to go i'll gtpt u....my treat;)

RuIna jee...

Thanks.. so i will be waiting for your treat.. just let me know when will be that and how long i will have to wait for that...

Absolutely wiz kid u r right tara aafnu ta k garnu, weekend ma kaam, weekdays ma class. Jaad khaidaina. So kun baar ho bhanne kura le khasai teti effect nai garndaina. Mero laagi ta hapta ko satai baar ustai ustai.

:(

k garnu, aba tetai tira aaunu parla jasto cha hajur haru lai join garna lai

how long i will have to wait for that... >>>
that i am not sure:P LOL.
i ain't from dc soo..problem arise here!

Lau ke garne ta..

Distance po problem bhayo ta.... anyway thanks.... there is always better luck in future .................ani pheri ma chu, tapai hunuhuncha ani yo sajha chadai cha ni... namari bache, kaal le sanche,, ekdin ta bhet hola ni :))))))

RuInaJi and Wiz_kid,

la treat ma pugisakecha... ekdin na ayeko ta sajha ma kati chito unnati ra pragati bhayeko ....

Distance problem rahecha....... tyo ta kun thulo kura bhayo ra...

yo geet gaaudai jane ni...

saath samundar paar me tere piche piche aagaya
me tere piche piche aagya
woh jalim duniya, woh jalim duniya tere kadmoke niche aagya
saath samundar paar me tere piche piche aagaya

all the best in future ;)

Sometimes nice words and good advice are just wonderful as sone tonic or medicine.It heal's the invisible wounds and bruises of our heart.
That was indeed a good suggestion Ruina.Always be like that,like a guiding star.
And yea fellow Batash, no once can help you unless u wanna help yourself. Like many of our sajhaties friends said self confidince is what u got to built up in yourself. There's nothing to fear about or lose about to talk two more words then just a smile and hi and bye.Deeds talks more then words. U know tht you are friendly and sweet,but u should let know your freinds too that u are.When u talk to a stranger and whom u wanna be close to just think tht person is like ur family members and take it easy as you talk it simply. U can just make a conversation about foods,sports, movies any thing that can make u feel like breaking your ice.Once you get started conversation goes like wise.
Best of luck dude.