What are the odds of your ex and girl you wanna date for serious relationship happen to be co-workers. I found out today. I really like this girl and wanna have a serious relationship. One year back my ex and i had thing but both decided to move on. What you guyz think ? I thinking of backing off!

So you want to be in a serious relationship with a girl who works together with your ex. Am I getting it right?

Its just you who want to have serious relationship or even the girl..i m confuse here..

LOL well give it a try :) looks like a disaster!! they would definitely talk about u !!

Yes ,ujl.


Npvirus , We both share stuff and I already told her my interest and I'm letting her take her time.

Mercynova, I thought so. Worse part is my ex is her supervisor.

@ Rato Ragat, you can take this as an opportunity. Tell the world how lovable you are. I bet your ex will be jealous and will do her best to say bad things about you with your new girl. Sometime you gotta believe yourself. Next time, find out when your new girl is with your ex, and call your new girl or text with a lovely message! Life is too short to worry about ex, pre-ex or pro-ex. Go and feel the love vibration. If I were you, I will go to her office and talk to her supervisor (your ex) if she can grant 1 week vacation to your new girl so that you both can have a good time. This way your ex will be super jealous! Good luck !

@ujl Dude ! making ex jealous is not somethings that i want to do this point to time. I really appreciate your post tough. Like i said , i am willing to have a serious relationship that means we are not having serious relationship yet. She is still processing her thought on that. I am 100% sure there will not be a positive reaction if tell her whole things and she will be convinced.

@ Rato Ragat....Relationship is not like a ripe fruit that you eat right away. Trust plays key role in any relationship to be serious and this takes time. In the meantime, try achieving her trust. Make her feel she is secure in your hands and this takes mature move in your part and her part as well. Just be yourself and do things. Best wishes.

Hmmmm... i was thinking.....
There are two girls in the same office ....one you have already dated....another u want to date....
I feel that you are scared of your ex..of saying things to the new girl.... have you done anything wrong to her???

Second is if your new girl get influenced by the ex....its good that you dont date her.... if some exs comes and tells me things... i would say mind your own business.....she will not be my concern.....ever.....so u need to give it a try.....
Relationships dont come with a guranttee card... you have to work on it....it might work or might not.....but you ll always have the satisfaction that you have atleast tried..... annd yes i ll second the thought of ujl here....you got to make her feel special
(This always works.....coming from a woman: p)

go for it...coz whatever happen, it happen after some action...nobody knows the result but at least you will find it out when you go for it..

Wait till you get laid with this new GF, after that tell her everything about ur past relationship and she is the one you want to get married , it should work, based on experience . But if you said everything before hand , it's 50/50 chance. Your call.

@ujl thanks mate ! I am going to try my best making her feel special.

@ambrosia thanks! I am pretty sure she is very sensitive person. I'm afraid that she will quit working there if she find out.its weird, don't you think. My ex , she is bossy, very upfront and filled with attitudes, like a Bit*h. Ay, thanks for your post.

@meraj. Dude this girl is very sensitive.**sex before marriage** dont even think abt it.ay, thanks for your post mate !

meraj... sex before marriage is not a green card to everything you can do in a relationship.....
and trust me if she is one of those girls...even sensitive...she will throw you out for taking sex for granted....