is there wor like TRUE LOVE in this world,

when they r together at the same place they love eachother and cant stay even a single day without seeing eachother but when they r far then slowly they forget eachother and immediately begins to think of someone else as his/her true love . so is it true love, when it decreases gradually after u r apart for me it seems more like habit then a love bcoz when they r far it decreases bcoz their habit of seeing eachother daily is vanished, and their habit of living without eachother begins.

what do u guys think? dont u think that if there is true love , it wont affect no matter how far u r and how long it will take u two to b together and isnot it enough to live with ur frens remembering those beautful days u had shared?

Like someone said love is something all talk about but very few can feel it....me feels it . LOL.

Let me quote Indis now hai monks ? ;))

One that fades away with time, is NOT Love,
---------------------------------------------------------
Damn mine fades real soon...if i love someone i love fully if not i really let it fade away hehe.

One that changes face when times rough, is NOT Love;
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
ME AGREES 100%

If it can not survive thru the distance, is NOT LOVE ,
----------------------------------------------------------------------
Awwwwwww Inernet love of mine. ;)

Where trust doesn't last, is NOT Love;
--------------------------------------------------------------------
Yep...no trust no love.

Where lies creeps in, is NOT Love,
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Ofcourse not...thats why i say...bitter truth is better than sweet lies. ;)

When one is ambivalent, is Not Love;
----------------------------------------------------------------------
YEP ALWAYS SHOULD KNOW WHAT U WANT.

When TRUTH reins supreme, then it's LOVE.
----------------------------------------------------------------
oh yeaaaaaaa. pheewwwwwwww. ;)

Definately, true love does exist:

True love to my defination would be: Unconditional love, a compassion, sincere concern with no strings attached with an ablity to hold on and be able to let go.

Though many times I'm deeply saddened by the fact that many people cant figure out the differences between Relationship and Love.

Well there's definitely the word called "LOVE" in this world.....but "TRUE LOVE"...i have no idea as i have not came across such a junction that would make me ponder about it....LOVE is something that come from within our heart and is something that we can't stop it from growing....Love mean trusting, respecting, understanding, accepting, sharing, comprising and being honest with one another....LOVE is such a thing that can makes one's life filled with lots of hopes and dreams....On the other side LOVE can also be the cause to self-destruction....Well what i believe is that it all matter how a person look at the issue.....a person who is far away from his loved one....might tends to seek for love in someone as he/she might be lonely in the new environment.....they might just seek for a friend but which might turn into LOVE....it's not that they wanna betray the one whom they love back home....coz love is not something that u go and seek for but love is something that happen between two person unintentionally and unknowingly.....and u will realized that he/she is the life partner that u are looking for.....Sometime it take very long for some people to get their soul mate.....it might take place after going through a number of relationship.....not everyone is a lucky...if only everyone could find their soul mate at the first meeting, then that would be great.....but life doesn't work that way....one's happy ending might not mean that yours will be the same too....everyone will have their own way of ending to their love story.....LIfe is a long journey with lots of ups and down with unknown destination....and we have to play our part and just moved on with life with positive and optimistic attitude.....Love is a strange thing....u might be in love with someone now but as the time past..one day u wake up and realised that u are in love with someone else....then what will do...isn't it better to be honest to your partner and tell him/her the truth rather than living a life of lie. The worst will be when he/she find out about the affairs that u are having with the third person. I say a TRUE LOVE is the one who knows how to forgive his/her lover and give a good wishes and blessing to the new couple and move on with the life again....." you don't put your love in a captivity...instead you should set it free....if it came back to you again then he/she is yours.....otherwise he/she was never yours...."

Keep_Rocking dude

----------"It might take place after going through a number of relationships .............not everyone is lucky......."

Well, how the heck will anyone be less lucky (compared to those who have) for not finding perfect love in the first relationship ?

The whole process of finding perfect love would be damn boaring, not exciting, lack of adventure, total lack of discoveries of different avenues in other words total crappy experience if I were to find my true love in my first relationship.

------------" Love is a strange thing....you might be in love with soemone now but as the time pass...one day you wake up and realised that you are in love with someone else...."

Well, over here your defination of love has gone far off track from what you actually defined in the first few lines. At this point it seems like your defination of love LOVE has rather taken the shape of "infatuation" or may be "temporary attraction" or may be a relationship NOT LOVE.

Yes, it is true that for a time being you might be attracted and be in relationship with some one and after a while you lose attraction and end relationship as well. If love was to begin and end like this ..hell...no...how can LOVE fit into the defination of LOVE in the first place ?

heheehehe.....well Neetaji....answer to your first question....u seems like to go thru lots of trouble to find your soulmate no matter how many heart u have to broke...as for me, i would love to find it with less trouble if possible....that way i wouldn't be hurting too many gals heart & feeling....

As for your second question.....don't take the statement narrowly....by just thinking about boy and girl relationship....what if this happen between a couple who were married.....they married in the first place b'coz they were in love right or maybe they thought they were....but later maybe something cock up and they start to hate one another rather than love each other....that's the reason why now-a-days there lots of divorces going on.

When u are in love with a person and u tell him/her that u love him/her looking into his/her eyes with your whole pure clean heart.... then it is love....no matter the relationship did not last due to certain reasons. In such a case u can't just put off the issue by saying that it was just a infatuation. People say that to put their heart to rest. If not then why would they cried their heart out when they out of love. i say there was a love but which only lasted a short period. It just like a life.....some love live longer and some live short.

Love is not alway accepting but also giving and love is unconditional.....u should criticise it if it did not work out...

Oops.....should not criticise it if it did not work out...

Keep Rocking

Reading the end of third paragraph of your post in your second last post. I wonder how can sometimes love fora short peroid and sometimes for a longer period.

May be you are trying to say that some relationships last longer while some dont..isnt it ?

self contradictory statements....holy cow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hehehehe....ya that's what i meant....and u seem to understand it....was that difficult to figure out ????....sigh...!!!

ONCE IN EVERY LIFE TIME
Once in every lifetime, someone comes along,
The one special heart
You've been waiting for your whole life long.

Once in every lifetime, God sends an angel from above,
To make your life complete
Who you can give your endless love.

When a love like this comes, make any sacrifice,
For the best things in life
Seldom come along twice.

There is no love that compares to yours and mine,
A love from heaven that only comes
"Once In Every Lifetime."

LOVE... hmm, you dont wanna get into that thing, if you aint chill with two words.. compromise and sacrifice.... if you jump into that.... you gonna get wacked....
AND the worst part is.. you gotta know when you gotta use dem two words in your action...
i will let you know if i ever find my true love, till then just go with the flow...

Wah wah wah girly jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. Ahile chai bujhe hai maile, yo chai maile bhuheeeeeeeeeeeee la, malai badhai cha. Aba ma pani kabita bujhna thalne bhaye, aba malai pani kabita ko khurak chhincha. Tesaile ma aajai gayera yeuta kabita sangraha kinera lyauchu.

ehehehehehehehehehehe. lol.

abt love.................ohhhh lovely lovely day to take abt love topic
anyway if i have to say,we come to love not by finding perfect person but by learning to see a imperfect peson perfectly....
i am sure there is true love in this world.........
sachai ma tikeko sambhanda nai true love ho............... ali ali sahitiyk hunu parda hehe:)

Many people say love is pain and pain is love!!My advice dunt make that quote come true!Ull Regret It!!mek sure he gut same feelings for u first!!lolAll righty. Here's the deal. Never ever say I love you when you feel pressured to say it. Like it's expected of you. Never. Never say it randomly. Love is special. You can't just be like randomly I love you! It means too much. Don't throw the term around too much. Also- here's a poem I wrote simply entitled Love. Love is like this big huge smile spreading on your face And you weren't aware it was even there Until it is in place Love is like utopia Love is perfect love is grand Love is more special, more intimate Than just locking hands But love is also like a gun Loaded ready to shoot And it will blast right through your heart If it chooses too Love is also like an arrow Tense ready to kill Ready to lodge itself as a pain in your heart Ready to make you ill And love will hurt and love will harm But somehow it will find a way To make our live better And enhance each given day

girly gurl, plz do all of us a favor and SHUT UP THE f(@K up!!


jiskeko, sorry if i offended you, i love u :)

Hello...sajha pplz...i came across this words in the web and thought of sharing with u pplz..........
********************************************************************

THE GREATEST TEST OF TRUE LOVE.

The most important, most critical component in successful loving is commitment. Not love.

It's easy to love without commitment. People do it all the time. Easy to love, to give of oneself for a while. But commitment implies bonding in such a way that one promises to keep the fires of love burning indefinitely. It also means shutting one's heart to the possibility of loving another who might even be more attractive, even more lovable. Not
easy.

This is why solid commitments are not at all as common as we are led to believe. In fact,
more often than not, I think that the commitment two lovers make are not equal. What I mean is that thecommitment of one might be a whole lot more or a whole lot less than the partner's. We see it all the time.

One loves more than the other and is more committed than the other. We have often seen lopsided love relationships where one partner is giving so much more to the relationship than the other.

But writers and poets seem to always indicate that love isn't just a two-way street, but an equal two-way street. That hardly ever happens. It is impossible to determine exactly how much a man loves a woman or how much a woman cares for a
man.

Love cannot be measured and that can be a huge problem. You can love someone and tell him "I love you" and you're telling the truth. But how much do you love him? Enough to let him court you? Enough to marry him? Enough to die for him? THE GREATEST TEST OF TRUE LOVE is commitment.

And the greatest indicator of deep love is deep commitment. I have heard people say all the right words, make all the right moves and pledge undying love, only to walk away weeks or months later. Were they in love? Sure they were. But not enough to allow them to hold strong in their love. Not enough to keep a commitment regardless of the pain.

Lover gets this sinking feeling when there is a sense that one is more committed than the other. When one is giving a lot more than one is receiving. When one's love is a lot more solid than the creaky love of the partner.

When a couple believe strongly that their commitment to each other is rock solid, there is a deep sense of security, a feeling that it's OK to give all becausethe gift of yourself is safe in the hands of the beloved. If, however, there is doubt or, even worse, the conviction that one is engaged in one-way giving, in a one-way commitment that is
lopsided, then there is a tendency to pull back and not give as much. And when that happens, love begins to fade.

In the countless counseling sessions I have had with troubled couples over the years, there has always been the problem of a failing commitment on the part of at least one of the partners. Unless there is the raising of the level of commitment, the relationship is doomed. It's finished.

Sooner or later the stresses will take their toll and therelationship will begin to fall apart. On the other hand, look carefully at couples who are still very
much in love after 20, 25 years. Their commitment to each other cannot be shaken. Neither can their love

sorry i didnt read every post there is here..im kinda jhyaap ke ;o) hehe

and well didnt read the orignal post too..kinda read it thru hehe..

anyways me opinion..(which i dun expect others to read too hehe..just like i ddidnt read others hehe)


there is no such thing called true love..:o) be logical ppl!!!!

in the end...if u do end up with someone...and u do try to make it work...isnt that true love?if it works out?cos well in the end..what u have is true love..:o)....cos love(i dun really believe in it anyways hehe..) ...is smthing u will know....which will grow...when u are with a person for a long time..its about give and take....seriously one sided relationship isnt love..its just obession...love is ..well tango..takes 2..and in the end...well i like to belive i loved a person who ...well i tried to make it work..and she tried to make it work with me...until the end..:o)..

well thats just me and me opinion anyways..could be wrong...could be right..i will only know when me end comes..:o)..but thot i just share me thots :o)...

have a good day...


danny..:o)

I will talk about this in only few words.

If what you call love changes with space and time. Space and time moves through a flux of impermanence. This is not love, it is lust. Lust does not last very long and it is devastating for long term relationships. A true love is nothing more than a friendship. What does a good friend do to other? They are trustworthy, respectful and wishes for complete wellness of their partners/friends. The whole purpose of a guy and a girl getting together is to reproduce. There is no mystery to that, but when you are speaking of love, then it really doesn't matter if it is with a guy/girl, or anyother beings in the universe. If you are looking for a true love, then that true love that u're seeking is not bound by time and space. Just like a virtue of goodness is not bound by space and time. This is very difficult to find since our hearts and minds are not cultivated to live with this virtue.. Even as I'm writing this, I don't have this characterstic. I still have lust connotation attatched to love. At least I'm fully aware as this happens.

Love is love ... it doesn`t have true or false... and Love changes... not only love everything changes... all the things in the universe are in constant change.. whether visible or not to eyes. True for today might be false tomorrow... so its not love that put two people together.. why we are holding soo tight to love... why can`t love change???

Love to share with guys something about TTRUE LOVE, which i received in my e-mail today...cheers
********************************************************************

I would like to share something on the 'nature of love' I once had a
friend who grew to be very close to me.

Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the
palm of her hand with a little water and held it before me, and said this:

"You see this water carefully contained on my hand? it symbolizes Love."

As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain
there, it will always be there.

However, if you attempt to close your fingers around it and try to
posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try
to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water
spilling out of your hand, Love will retrieve from you.

For love is meant to be free, you can not change it's nature. If there
are people you loves, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.

Advise, But don't order.

Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to
truly practice.

It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel
no expectation from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring.
May be this is applicable for all of us.......