almost 3 years into their relationship, they broke up. he told his parents about her , his momma cried over the phone and just like that it's over....

"k wakka lagdo ho. jaat namilyo bhanera runu parne k chha ra"? i ask. "khai kina royo , malai k thah tani? aba tesko baba ama le bachha dekhi nai ...jaat jaat jaat bhanera hurkako thiyo ta tesle pahile nai afnai jaat ko keti khojnu parthyo ni ta...." says my best friend . "3 barsa samma ko sabai kura usko ama le aasu jharne bittikai khattam ke, uslai eklai huda samma k chha kaso chha , ka khayo hola , kasto chha hola bhanera worry garne , phone ma kura garne bela ma chai he needed me aba ghar bata hudaina bhane pachi pani he tries to act like everything is normal....ma chai tesko ghar bata keti chhanera bihe nagarauda samma sathi basdine ani finally la babu ramro sanga bihe garera basa bhanna lai ho ki k ho...i'm just gonna avoid him "

this got me thinking .....how many of us would actually go against our parents and marry the person of our choice?.(assuming we have a decent guy/girl that u're ready to marry but our parents object not coz they dislike the person but because of sth the person cannot change ).....mero bhanai chhai...afno ama baba conservative chha ra afnai jaat, nationality religion etc etc khojchha bhane pahile nai tyo kura mind ma rakhera keta/keti khojne....aru jaat, religion , nationality sanga relationship chha bhane teslai nai big deal banayera ....mero ama baba le didaina bhanna is just plain WRONG.

 

hellooooooooo, this is 21 st century and stepping into the dawn of 22nd and some of us still dwell in this crap!!

Parents are never wrong. f*** that. u will realize when u become parents. shits happens . People come and go.find another one or find the spritual one who loves and care for u.thats it.u don't have to speculate . this happens to most of the peoples life. have to choose right one. opportunity comes but never waits. this time, be careful as u may suffer whole life.

ohh how nice of him to care about his Mom...really hard to find those sort of guys these dayz..i hope my son would be da same.....

 

what about the 'gotra' ? they are saying - 'she is of same gotra'. Does it matter ? mmm... i dont understand what they actually mean..

the stupid guy should be taught a lesson. it's an amazing thing to be a good son. everybody should work for it. but i am in no support for either a guy or his parents who doesn't care abt the gurl who their son messed up with. in this case it's only 3 yrs....seriously i've seen ppl together for 7 years n broke up just cuz of that....i mean give me a break. how lame is that?? the poor girl seriously thought she was getting married to this guy. i would seriously love to beat this guy up...who broke my poor friend's heart. if he was to marry someone who their parents picked then what was he doing all those years. what a shame. a man's character is not build upon just obeying what his parents says....but how he obeys it. he should have been smart enough not to fool around..... and if he did...be a man n step up to the game to suffer the consequences!!

When that guy knew their parents wish and he was just their pet dog then, I dont understand why was he messing up poor gurls life ??

Prapta

MRITYUNJAYA  is right.

its not only guys, girls r more forward on this matter................

Mother come first no matter what. that guy did right decisioin

its life. and its been part of family and society for a long time. tara its progressively changing and readily accepted these days..good news..

ppl should try to stick to their own jaat

Yup! just find the way of life. Elders are never conservative BTW.We will be elder someday and we will never want our child to live such a way.everyone has past and they don't have to live the so called bound and unhappy life with only one person .perception changes. don't be stupid.there's always right one waiting for ya. if you are young .LOLnever mind..