Why 'true love' always hurts and makes u cry ???

I've never had the chance
To kiss your beautiful lips
To hold you tight all day
To run my fingers through your hair
Or talk to you till the sun comes up

My mind says this won't be so
But my heart knows different
Someday I will do these wonderful things
And never let you go

No matter how long it takes
No matter how many tears it makes
I will see you
Kiss you
And hold you
Until the end of time

by Gary R. Hess 

 

 

 

 

To start with - My confusing appology to "SONA" for being insensitive ( which I am not) in such a moment of Distress. The title of the thread itself is very confusing. This is atleast what I think. "True Love". What it is? Where you find it? If there is no such think called Love, How come there si True Love? There has been a long misconception ( i am not here to produce a theory) about Love. No such thing called Love exists. If so, can someone please tell me its measure, mass, color, state, smell, and something to prove. Any visual evidence si fine with me. I hear people often, saying that " I love icecream". tell me How can u love icecream?. I know you enjoy having icecream because you like taste, its smell, and besides all it satifies all your cravings and needs. Love is similar in the sense, it is always good when it satisfies you, the need of yours. When someone leaves you or let's say in your case ( i am sorry here, i didn't went through all the postings here, and I am yet to figure out your gender) when your so called "love" left you, its not love that is hurting you. ( I beg to differ here too with many folks out there. I alwys belive in "Duality". Things that exists in pair. like bad and good, )So if there is no such think called Love there is no Such think called Hate". You are hurt becoz, now you now You will miss ur "so called LOve", the time u used to spent together, the things you used to do together, and most importantly with the fact that he is not availabale when you need him. So finally comes to all your "Needs".

                SOme people say I love my job. No one loves jobs. You do your job because there are endless needs for you. I don't have to provide one here.......

I bet you, In another couple of months when you find another "so called Love" you will enjoy more than ever. becoz now you have someone to fullfill your "NEEDS". You like to spent time togethere.......

One Thing I know For Sure ...The WORLD revolves around the "NEEDS".

I know few out there are ready to fire back saying , "World revolves around the Sun".

More to come..........................

 

Stupida,

While I was reading your nick at the top of your comment I was thinking how stupid is the nick. But you don't seems that stupid as your nick is suggesting. Well said, you didn't describe about the theory of love but you described some other theories to describe the love, that's ok. I like your theory of need, of course all the living beings of their needs and even non living beings are also driven by needs of nature's cycle or physical cycle. And in the simple sense love is also a kind of need. But you can't define love all the time by simple definition of love. Even you don't have needs you may have expectations from the relation or better to say from your relation. And it is not the need which will hurt you when the relations break up but it is the expectation which will hurt you during the relation break up.

And I don't agree with you that there is notthing in this world like love. May be you are good in science but it does't mean that we don't have anything in the world which is abstract. We should''t forget that those are the inorganic elements which had given birth to the organic world and with the development of the nervous system feelings and all these abstract phenomen came into the existence. It is not necessary to have all the physical measurments to prove the existence of these abstract phenomenon. You may say that whenever you get satisfaction for your need from that kind of relation it is called as love. But that doesn't matter. In fact this is the feeling and you will definitely feel you. If you are really looking for the proof of this abstract phenomenon you can do it. Just do one study fine out how the hormone secretion takes place while a person feels the satisfaction of the love. How electrolytes will work? and how the sensors of nervous system will work? There will be definitely certain differences between the biochemistry of these systems when you will have satisfaction from different abstract feelings or dissatisfaction from others.

Well I don't have to say much about your theory of duality. But it sounds good. Love with hate, good with bad,...... and so on. Do you think that a person should have dual sex so that there will be no need to be attracted towards opposite sex and there will be no hurt from love?

Don't worry G.T., I am not stupid as it implies by name ( this was just a name given by someone who used to satisfy most of my NEEDS). Now, brother from different mother ( i like to say this everytime i want to make fun or make people laugh... ), I am not only talking about sex , Needs for sexual satisfaction...., I am talking about other things that she used to do. Even there was noone like her ( or till now) who si more satisfying when we used to fight so stupidly in simple matter. There are more.......I am not sure about dual sex....what you mean by it?...Sex is just a chemical reactions and a NEED for survival. ( Now don't tell me that there are people who had survived whiout sex, here I mean to say normal functioning of body parts). remeber there are always exceptions. Remeber, in college times... What happens when strong acid is added to strong base.....Vigrous recations.....Sex is same...it depends on the chemistry of "reactants". here people are reactants. I see you talking about "Expectations". This is simply a first step towards the NEED. You except from someone becox U NEED that". Tell me one thing that u never NEED, But u expected it.......There is no need to except something, when U don't NEED it. I expeact more salaray becoz I need it. U except ur realtions to work out becoz you need it..

There is no such thing that exists but have no defination. I saw you talking about hormones, electrolytes, and nervous system. I don't know what you ttrying to Prove. It might be ignorance on my part. I believe in feelings, It exists,a nd i have feel it many times. But thats not love.....Everytime when i leave from Ktm to US I cry ...becoz now I know I will miss all those good times that I saher with my family.........Even those morning tea or even that all unnecaessaruy advice from parents...........

Here I am not trying hard to convinience all people out there that " there is no such thing called love". I believe in it. How I differ is the naming convention that I give to the same thing. For you its called LOVE, From WHere I see is its "NEED". its just a way of saying same thing with differnt words.........

stupida,

Its good to know so many things about you bro. So you are also from the science background huh? Well I won't run behind your theory of need anymore. You can keep this theory unless you find something big that will prove that you are wrong or something like that. I don't know why you are feeling pain while departing from your family, your friend and whatover you have back in home you if you don't have anything known as love. In my words this feeling is the love, this isn't merely need. And talking about dual sexuality I was just kidding. Don't take it otherwise.

 

 

 

 

 

 

harey GT bro ke ho yesto? still only posting sad love songs? i got a better song for you man ;-) cheers!!

nice pick sunny,

here is mine one, was watching before going to bed

 

 

la sunny bro yo kasto cha? tyo kallu mama ko geet kati sunchau yar

 

kohi hota jisko apna hum apna kahate yaro, ufff!!!!

 

 

Jiye to jiye kaisi hai bin apaki?

 

Tere ummid tera intizaar karte hai.......

 

 

 

OK GT bro...since you asked....here's more of a your genre...tara nepali ho hai...dherai dhoti bhai ko geet vayo yaha :p

p.s. thanks to sajha's own dananah aka danny boi for uploading the video!

Can I join the song fest?

Tum ho toh  - Rock On

 

GT.....tapailai shirt ta khasai chahidaina justo chha....ke ho?