Guys, these days im dating a nepali girl, in her own will, whose husband is living in nepal for the last three years. I knew them after i came to US. he used to live next door when was living here with his wife. she still seems to be very good to her husband, but the funny part is,, she pauses me while having sex and receives calls from her husband at the same time,,,and again lets me start when she is done talking. I dont like her to receive anyone's call while having sex. it really distracts my concentration and pleasure. its very hard me to hold myself until she hangs the phone.  Specially when she talks with her husband, i just can start it again in the same pace.  Please suggest me what do i do to keep me up until she is done talking in the phone.

Thanks in advance for your suggestion.

Detroit,,,,,Thanks a lot for whatever you have suggested me. Brother, i dont have anything to worry about here in US anymore...I have been through all the processes, from 'F1-status - to - Greencard' successfully. I have very good knowledge about how to take care of my family and parents, and the reason i have that knowledge, they are living a sophisticated life back in nepal. as i said earlier,,i am saving hell lot of money taht i used to spend in bars and clubs. So, no worries about all those things...I would still thank you for worrying about my life.

FOR GOD SAKE,,, dont take it otherwise....I am also a simple guy, a normal, usual nepali. I just need to know how can i keep myself up during her eitire phone conversation and start it up in a same pace again.....or is there any other way to get rid of that "phone conversation" problem. Thats all. Thanks.

Contour,Good Luck to you bro! May you have enought strength to make good judgement about yourselfand make a good and beneficial decision out of it. People do follow wrong paths at times, but it does not mean that they can't leave orhave to remain in the wrong path forever. whatever reasons may come up, what you're doingwith that married woman is, in all aspects, wrong. However, if you have a strong willto get out of this mess, you will have a way. Whatever you do, all the best to you.

Man ...........wanted to say a lot but doesn't sound professional in here.

Happy face,,,,, im not doing anything wrong...Im fulfilling the sexual desire of a girl at her own will...without seeking any further relation with her, without trying to mess her relation up with the husband...without forcing her to sleep with me...its her own will...own decision to have sex with me. There is nothing that makes me hasitate to sleep with her....She herself says it will all be over once her husband comes to US,,,and she has trust on me that im not going to open our secret at that time......Well no,,im not doing anything wrong....people buy a whore to sleep with...at least im not doing that...im making a girl's soul happy and at the same time fulfilling my desire also.

Ok this is a time for a woman, a Nepali woman, to give her input again. I am very impressed on how some of you young Nepali Men have responded to Contour's pain and frustration in his current situation. Contour, first thing first. This is not a moral dilemma at all. The best phrase I can come up with my tired brain at the end of a workday is  more like "Libido/ Testorone Dilemma" or a "Jealousy Dilemma". Had you phrased it differently, you probably would have received a more constructive feedback rather than all the moral lashing that you have ended up receiving. To me it seems like you are getting somewhat attached to this woman unconsciously. And again this is just my opinion. You have to remember that every action has a repurcussion. I am not judging you in anyway though this is the not the path I would have to take hopefully in my life. But again when one have take care of ones' needs, physical or otherwise, we have to resort to methods that might be untraditional or unconventional ways. It is obvious you find this woman irrestible and you cannot stop yourself from doing what you are doing with her. However this being an infidelity, it is not going to be perfect. You cannot have it your way to the full. What I am trying to say is that you cannot expect to relieve and satisfy you sexual needs while maintaining your savings and your greencard. Since it looks like it is a mutual and consesual relationship and while you both are enjoying yourself, you should be happy for what you are getting. Dude you want to have a safe, continuous sexual relationship with this woman, save money and have her help you out with cooking and other chores.... I think you are getting a really good deal so you should just be content with what you are getting. Like one of the posting above, this type of relationship has a potential to tarnish your reputation and possibly hurt you in your career track. So you need to be mindful of these issues. And if Again And if you do decide to pursue this lusty relationship with her, you need buy some earplugs from Staples or OfficeMax with some erotic material to maintain your sexual peakness while she chats up with her husband. This is all I got to say.

Wow I did not think it was going to be this long but oh well!!!!!! But I am glad that women are not holding back from taking care of their needs though it may be this is not the best way to go about it. All I can say is to be mindful think of the repurcussions before you jump in the bandwagon. And good luck on this moral endeavour of yours Contour.

 

Anamika,,,,thanks,,what you have said here is the best among all. I really appreciate you as a girl trying to clear things up in this issue. I put forward my problem here in public not only to get supports on my "sex endeavor" but also to look at those long term consequences, specially bad ones. At this point, im comparing both bad and good consequences of what am i doing with the lady.

Anamika, lets see whats going to happen this evening since its almost time her to see me. I am actually motivated after reading all of you people, today i will try my best to give her a heavenly feel, and satisfy both of us more than ever before.

People, here is the deal:  Im going to talk to the girl today, after giving/ having the best satisfaction. I am going to ask her to avoid her husband when im banging,,,,im also telling her not to see me anymore  if she cant avoid her husband,,,,by today she has to decide it,,,I promise to you all i will leave her immediately if she wont accept my condition,,,,I want to know what kind of feeling a highly  educated nepali girl carries for her husband,,,,,,,,you guys will know the response of a nepali girl (im not generalising) when it comes to avoid her husband....I'm 100% sure she still loves her husband, and never think of divorce. if she walks out, im going to salute her,,if not i will keep banging more than before until i will find my own girl. I will let you guys know pretty soon, probably today after she leaves.....

Anamika , you are just F..king hypocrite. Go to hell

Anamika , you are just F..king hypocrite. Why do you mind others business ? Go to hell................

this whole situation is just too hideous...contour-there is nothing to think..nothing to compare...there is just one right thing and that is to stop...why do you have to screw a nepali Married woman...cant you go around screwing up some random girl..
and anamika- "women are not holding back from taking care of their needs"-this doesn't show how nepali women are becoming independent-it just shows that nepali girls/women are loosing their moral and values...and becoming week...
do you guys even know the meaning to being true to yourself?...does FAITH mean anything at all in your life?

sunahari-pari

Contour, as far as I could see from this thread, all you really want to do here is boast that you are banging someone else's wife. Just chill and do what you want. Leave the rest of us out of it. There is no need to prove that you are a casanova. Personally, I just hope that someday you don't find your own wife in bed with your neighbor. Karma, you know.

Contour, as far as I could see from this thread, all you really want to do here is boast that you are banging someone else's wife. Just chill and do what you want. Leave the rest of us out of it. There is no need to prove that you are a casanova. Personally, I just hope that someday you don't find your own wife in bed with your neighbor. Karma, you know.

laaaaaaaaaado khaa maachiiiikneee radiii ko chooora ... kam painaas.. mar na baru dubai jana raadiiii ko bahann. bekar ma chiikeera bas na ke haaala garchasss.

Ok Guys,,as i have promised to tell you what happened last evening, here is the conversation between i and the girl:

Contour : hmm ... your husband didn't call you for the last couple days...whats the matter? is everything fine?

Her: yes ...he is busy these days since he is organising his brother's wedding....

Contour: oh ok,,i never knew his brother is getting married.....hahahaha..

Her: why should you have to know about it?.....you are not going to get his new wife anyway...(in a funny way)

Contour:  hey look,,,today i had some weired feeling at work....

Her: what is it?,,you always smoke on the way to work,,,,that irritates your stomach...its obvious to have those kind of feeling in that condition....hahahaha..

Contour: dont make it fun,,,its not like that..its something else ...

Her:  As always...you are againg going to ask me when my husband is coming back right??...look contour its nothing to do with you at all....i will inform you ahead of time, you dont need to worry about who comes and who goes in/from my life...you just dont show any kind of concerns.....before we started this relation, you have promised that you will go away and wont bother me whenever i asked you to do so...i still believe you are keeping your promise as strong as it was.

Contour: Im with you.....but today i was about to talk something else....

Her: oh common dumbo....tell me what is it....are you thinking to take me out...."in some nice hotel?" wanna take me to vacation..?  hey...if you are planning for that...take me to Jamaica.....I love that place..as you know i love Raggae music....i have heard they even have party in the street, girls on topless.....they have sex on the street and nobody cares.....wow it would be so cool.....but poor me...i cannot go to Jamaica...since im still in Student Visa...and there is a mere chance to get a visa to go there....leave it asshole....I dont like my life...i love my husband but he is just a loser...he only knows how to Fu@k me but not in a right way.. ..he is a total dumbo..nonsense...very unromantic. I dont like his talking style...I cant even look at his hair..its like "chipku".......look at yours..its called hollywood style....I dont like the way he sleeps..asshole always snores......hahahahah the funny part is ..he still listen to TARA DEVI....KISHOR KUMAR...NARAYAN GOPAL.......you know what, once i was dancing in kitchen cooking...in the song "Maiya Maiya" do you know that song?....from "Guru" Movie?.....He was mad looking at me...it was little pervert dance....just to turn him on...was just making him up..and that asshole got mad...oh my god! i  just dont  believe this......

Contour: was just listening watching the movement of her chin and breasts.....and that movement started hitting me again.....I couldnt wait and start kissing them ..

Her: you are so horny man....i dont even believe you can do it 6-7 times sometime ...dude...it hurts very bad when you dont live me for almost half an hour...this time please do it fast...we need to wake up early, i have a presentation tomorrow morning.

It took us almost 20 minutes for the whole process this time...no phone calls again...

Contour: hey..I wanted to talk to you about something else...

Her : WHAT????????? tell me what???

Contour:  how do you like me when i am banging you?

Her: Goshhh..dont ask....today's first strike was so superb.....the second one...i was tired so it was just so so for me....but the first one was really superb.....no one but only you can do it for me...

Contour: well.....its because nobody called you today....

Her: Oh ya....I could feel your concentration working it out very well.....hahahaha do you know i cummed twice.....hahahaha.....chiiiii.....im being pervert ..i cant believe....but i dont care...its only with you.

Contour: hey,,,i really dont want you to talk with your husband when we are having sex. Im serious about it. I cant do it good when you talk in phone.

Her:  ok babbaa....I will put my cell in silence...its not a biggy.........happy now????  hey the pork is getting cold....im gonna make "tomato ko achaar"..hold on...be ready for the dinner ..quick quick....we have to wake up early tomorrow........hey you are going to drop me .......tomorrow on your way to office ...rememba rigt???

SO,,,this is it!!!!!!!!!!!

I have let you guys know what really happen yesterday evening.......A to Z.......now you guys tell me what you think about it?

I need only serious repies......no SMARTNESS please.

 

 

 

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AND GUYS LISTEN DONT POST ANY RESPONSE ON THIS THREAD. BECOZ IT IS 100% FAKE . HE IS TRYING TO BE SMART. I CAN NOT IMAGINE HOW U GUYS BELIEVE ON SUCH A THINGS. THIS IS IMOSSIBLE. EVEN IF IT IS IN REAL THEN NOBODY IS GOING TO POST THOSE THINGS IN SAJHA. HE MOTHER FA****KER IS FAKE,.

DOOD I AM ALSO FACING THE SAME MORAL DILEMMA. I AM ALSO IN A STICKY SITUATION. LIKE YOU I AM GETTING CLOSE TO HER/HIM WHO IS MARRIED.

 

Stay away from crap or you'll start stinking...

if your only moral dilemma is the phone call, have her turn it off. problem solved.
if that was your only dilemma, but it seems like your are just making your life choices complicated. I am in no place to comment on it.

If I was that guy, and my wife was cheating on me. I would just cut your 3rd leg.. and shot that whore and u know what I would go and string your whole family in nepal.

This is just my opinion.

Whatever you are doing is straight up wrong. If it was me I would get the hell awaya from that woman(whore) , can't she buy a freaking Dildo????

 

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.

you will be writing a thread again saying the same stuff but in the opposite side, I call my wife and she is naked in the bed with someone else and I can hear his voice and all the noises they make, what should I do???

my answer will be Hang Yourself.

what a waste of time.

Delete this freaking thread.

Saku,,,,you do all that first by yurself......i do those stuffs only with who im suppose to. Im sorry for your nasty reaction.

Sajha ko hero,,,,,,,its your own decision if you want to enroll in the venture or not.

Chor,,,,you are right, anything goes around, comes around....so i would not leave my wife alone for a long time in the middle of hornies.