Dear Friends
I am now in Japan and going to finish my masters level in civil engineering from Osaka university. I will enroll in P.hd. in this April session. I frequently read this Kurakani in sajha.com.Today I also want to participate in it. Before enrolling to P.hd. I am planning to get married because I am fed up with this lonely life. I have not any girl friends untill now. As all of you know getting married is not like buying a macdonalds in a resturaant. I am already 29. I need suggestions that what kind of girl is suitable for me..older than me or just slightly younger or very younger.

योगीको घरमा सन्यासी पाहुना !
अब साझाका केटाहुरलाई केटी खोज्देऊ, अमेरिकातिर त्यो जापानी जान्नी भुनेर हुन्छ?

ओसाका त ड्राइ नै रे छ तर टोकियो अलिकति ओसिलो देख्छु हिजो आज। मेरो बे गरिसकेसी। क्यार्नु कर्ममा नलेखेसी।

आम्नुस् ओसाके खाएर गफ गरम्ला सके केटी भिराएर पठाम्ला नसके नि ट्याम पास त हुन्छ।

अस्ति अप्रिलमा त हो नि मैले त्यो पैयुँको रुखमुनि बनबोज (हानामी) गर्दा सुश्री भेट्या गोडा २,३एक।
एउटी त झापाली नै हुन् तर कोइराली नै हुन् कोइराला र कोइराली बे हुन्छ कि हुन्न बरु?
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चिप्ले, आँफुले चैँ सुटुक्क बे गर्नी अरुसित निम्तो माग्नी, त्यो त भे न नि।

Ok Koirala, lets talk now....:D I hope you didnt mind when i said ''no one'' The reason is very simple, every women seeks for a man who knows what he wants in life and this goes for guys too...hoina ta? Since you asked us what kind of girl you want how will people know?....so for a minute be honest with yourself and correct me if i am wrong. Anyways, now think deeeeeeeep, grab a paper....make two rows...and in one write what u want, and in next write some points with what you cant ever compromise with....ani ask again hai...

you want= you need

Dada Giri,

Maile kaha sutukka bihe gareko chu ra. Nimto pathaa ho, tapai ko gaau ma Maobadi le hulaki lai pasnai dida rahinachan. Baru tapai pani ahile Japan tirai hunuhuncha kayre, hamra Koiralaji lai yeso sahayog garnu hola. Japani bhasha janne kohi chainan Dhobadi, Changchangi tira ka?

Well Okji,I second Matrix... Its not about being ADHUNIK or Uttar ADHUNIK.....
Mr. DRK wrote
I need suggestions that what kind of girl is suitable for me.
For this, Shouldn't HE HIMSLEF SHOULD BE CLEAR.....Duhh How can We know what he wants yaar...Uslai aafulai thaha bhayepacchi po lu malai yesto chahine bhannu paryo...Hoina ra???...:)
Nirman~*

Kuro sorai aana sahi ho Nirmanji.

La yo suchana rakhieko chu, kasaile contact garema bichar puryai tyahi anusar aghi badhnu hola.

Jhapa ghar bhai haal Japan ma adhyayan gardai garnu bhaeka 29 barsiya Koiralaji suyogya jiwansathi ko khoji ma hunu huncha.

Interested candidates or matchmakers, please contact him via Sajha.

PS. Koiralaji, be sure to check your email regularly hai, Sajha sanga register gareko chahi. Kehi khabar aula ki :)

Beware! Ninety percent of married men have regretted marriage. So still there's time to think. Behaaa garey pani pachhu tauney, nagarey pani pachhu tauney. Marriage is unnatural thing - no birds, animals do. Learn from nature and stay natural. Having a girl friend who understands total freedom is OK. But don't get married and ruin your life by ruining your freedom. Freedom is the key to happiness.

Beware! Ninety percent of married men have regretted marriage. So still there's time to think. Behaaa garey pani pachhu tauney, nagarey pani pachhu tauney. Marriage is unnatural thing - no birds, animals do. Learn from nature and stay natural. Having a girl friend who understands total freedom is OK. But don't get married and ruin your life by ruining your freedom. Freedom is the key to happiness.

Harre, DBR, you just need to go back home , lines of gals waiting to get married with your Certificate,, oops, you .Take your pick then. I knowww, it sounds outdated, happens all the time still, hee hee.Take heart though, sometimes these marraiges happen to work too. Say a prayer or two in the meantime. Cheers!

gone with the wind...

Dibya Raj, Nobody gives better suggestion than me, and I am giving you my million dollar suggestion. Don't marry, at least not until you are 32-35. 29 is not an age to get married. It's your loneliness that is kicking you below your belly and that is exactly what makes a man vulnerable. That is exactly what makes you want to get married. The more you think about it, the more you get into this pile of dung. So, the best thing for a time being is, listen to Chiple Dhunga ( I liked what he said). If you find a girl that you can talk for an hour without getting bored, marry her. It doesn't matter which nationality she is. If you don't find a girl right now, then wait, finish your Phd. Until then, make new friends, meet new people, socialize, engage yourself on other stuffs so you don't get lonely. Visit brothels, if they have it, else, gratify yourself. Whichever way you can release it, do it. When you are done with school, You can go back to Nepal, get married with a homely girl. There are bunch of half naked Nepali party girls in PartyNepal.com. Let me assure you, most of them are not taken. The pond is big and there are plenty of fishes.

Funny! "...What kind of girl is sutaible for me?" Only if I knew.
Praying for the wind to blow towards my direction,
ChrisCornell

Koiralaji,

Ahile tension lera kaam chaina. As you are aware of your obligation to finish your PhD within 3 yrs, just focus on it. If you feel lonely at times, find better ways to kill it rather than smoking and sulking. Yeso Sajha ma hangout garay pani huncha.

Think of this scenario: Let's say you get married with someone from Nepal in the very near future. Tapai ko srimati lai Japan lyaune visa ko tension (I am not sure hai Japan ko case ma kattiko garho cha tyo kaam). Even if it happens to be an easy task, think of the situation once she is there. She probably can not legally work, and you are busy with your studies. She stays home without virtually anything to do. That will be a torture for her. At the same time, due to your academic obligations, you will be barely able to enjoy your married life. Furthermore, think of the additional expenses that you need to support her. If you have a child at the same time, then it is going to be even more difficult. Tesaile ahile khurukka padhai ma focus garnus, and enjoy your time with more freedom and less responsibilities.

When you go back to Nepal, I am sure your folks will have a bunch of kanyas ready for you to choose. If you still don't know what kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with, at least you can compare the presented candidates and decide which one is more suitable for you. Chitta bujhdo kohi bhetie, get to know her better, ani dubai jana ko man milay jhyaai paaray bhaigo.

Check this too...:P

Which one are you Rose? Cancer or Pisces?

Or Tauras? Tell me no, becuase that'll be such a disaster, young lady. :) Good to see you.

Im Gemini...;)

Im Gemini...;) Nepal bata chai Cancer ;) But im more like Gemini...

Ma ta Saggitarius...K ho K ho!!!...:P...:D

Oh thank God.. Gemini is good all the same. How's the weather there? It's been a dreary day today - still raining. English weather eh! Did anything especial today? Bought myself a nice set of TV, a decoder and a DVD player! :) Yippy.. Looks like my Dashain has arrived only just! So, I've now replaced my weel old (14") Samsung which I bought in Germany some five years ago with a massive 28" SONY.. Good, innit!
:)

Oho, Nirman ji... long time no see. How have you been man? Haven't seen your shadow ambling past my screen for a while.