I want to ask you guys abt what you would do if the person you love begins to change. I mean my guy doesn't talk like before. He talks so less that I feel very miserable. We are having a long distance relationship and there is so much of communication gap. He knows that I feel this way and still is not trying at all from his side. Do you think that there is any other way I can try solve this problem? You might say that I should forget about this guy and go separate ways but that is not possible in my case because we are engaged and getting married after few months. Can you suggest something please? Thanks you so much!

It is not easy
loving someone from a distance.
But the pain
of being so far draws the love closer.
The longing to see the one I love
reaffirms in my heart
that the love is for real.
It wont run away like the tide,
it wont fade away
like a distant landscape.
It will become
what we have been waiting patiently for-
a relationship that's not distant

amen!

----anonymous

~*ruIna*~

Ahem! :D

*wink*

poooooooooo da !!:D

.WOW....nice one...ruIna....!!

People say "Distance makes the Heart grow Fonder", I don't know how much true it is. Long distance love is never easy to handle. It sucks when the loved one is so far that one cannot express the feeling.

If these two lovers were close to each other they would have talked out the problem.

I am outta here!!

misspriya - well if you guys are engaged and getting married in two months and the guy is acting that way, then i suggest you leave him. Cause isn't he supposed to be more interested in you and caring about you since you guys are getting married now and all that?? Exactly!!! So, don't you think it would be better to leave him now than getting a divorce later on??
And anyways, guys are like that!! or everyone's like that!! They are interested in the beginning and then they get bored with you and all that!!
Don't you agree?? :D

Communication is the most important thing when you have long distance relationship. I am fortunate to have a very understanding GF (to be wife). though she is physically far away from me, we are able to know how do we do each day. I do call her almost everyday or if I can’t call we spend chatting that day. For me, both party must prove desire to talk.

Sometimes I just feel I am taking too much of her time and don’t feel like calling her that day. When I don’t call, she gives me a ‘miss call’ that’s her sign that she is waiting for my call or send me a SMS. We have known each other for six months but feel like we know each other for ages because there is not such a thing that we have not discussed. Our meeting was arranged by our family when I was last time in Nepal and the marriage has been fixed for next year so there is no hesitation to call at her home and talk to her family too.

Not all are fortunate to be able to talk frequently that may be due to work load or expenses of making call or lack of variety on conversation. Making move or conversation is not solely left to one party; there should be expression of desire from both sides. Misspriya should ask her ‘to be’ what are his constraints and sometimes she herself take initiative to make him come back to her.

i m totally agree with 777.

777 and uptowngal - don't you think she's already tried that?? She said "He knows that I feel this way and still is not trying at all from his side."
Exactly!!! She should leave him like i said before!!! It's kind of obvious!! The guy is just like well she's getting married to me so whatever it won't really matter if i don't care that much anymore and acting that way.
And if he's acting that way and when people change in their relationship like that then you know that they just don't deserve you!!
and about long distance relationship hmmm...yeah you're supposed to talk and talk and talk and when only person is talking then it's like you're telling someone a story!!! It's like okay so here's my story ..........so are you bored and feeling sleepy now?? okay goodnight!! and you call that communication??
So, just leave him!! :)
:D

when only one person*

DON'T LISTEN TO CRAP HERE!! LEAVE HIM ! DO THIS DO THAT!
as if they have phds in lovalogy and long distance relationship ..hehe .. i told you psychology.

do what your heart say!!!mind doesn't work !!if it worked - then it wouldn't be love !

hehehe imi is changed ...believes in love now;)

.welcome aboard ImI :P

Have a good one!!

Jai Shambhoooo!!

If you want it to work it will work but remember "euta hat le tali bajdaina"!

ThanKs camo..i am in love land now ..hahaha

People are giving suggestion as if it was direction to their home.i think know how to get to you home ,right honey :)

People are giving suggestion as if it was direction to their home.i think you know how to get to your home ,right honey :)

Misspriya dont listen to us do what ur heart say.

capitalism is about separation
It separates the rich from the poor
boy from girl
husband from wife,
city from village
physical labour from mental labour

Only in communism, this separation will end.
So, Ke garne?

Afai bichar gara Nani!!

Communication is the key. Also, if between the 2 of you, you're the only one putting in most of the effort, you might want to chill out with that. If you're giving your guy a lot of attention, he may be acting the way he is because he knows no matter how he treats you, he'll always get that attention from you. If you want to, try one day to kind of act like you have better things to do than to think about him or try with him.. he may wonder why you're acting differently and put out the communication and affection you need.

All this communication theory is useless, scorpio.

Men have been using women as commodities for centuries.

Why cant women treat Men like commodities?

My humble suggestion is that : go for eye for eye.

www.wecanendvaw.org

" Only in communism, this separation will end."

hahaha...hulaki commie maobadi lei politics gusayo.yaha.

ya communism seperation will end ..we have seen in North Korea - south korea, China.

Communist we seperate soul from body!!
Communist survives in the principal of seperation and rule.

Nepal's commnunist loves seperation everynow and then small commie parties are seperated.

Communist we seperate husband and wife and send husband to jungle with gurellas and wife at home !!!

Hulaki doesn't know defination of seperation i guess. Uneducated junglee postman!!!!

hey priya,listen to your heart,its you who can built the bridge,mainly if you have felt this guy is the one i am going to spent rest of life then!!!!!!! its a human nature,we make mistakes ,we have expectation and when rn't fulfilled we go on acting indifferently....so talk to him ,tell him what u feel,then see the reaction ,it will surely make u feel better and think what to do next rather keeping everything inside