hey guys, most of us are not single.hehe
is there anyone who's involved in a long distance relationship?how far is it getting better?or is it becoming more of "out of sight,out of mind" situation? write your stories.

i "thought" so too...

दाइको सालीलाई टाढाको भन्ने कि नजिको ? रगतको नाता नभए पछि टाढैको होला। :-)

Anyway it is easy for girls to cheat,,because all they have to do is show some skin,,or dont even need to do that,,that any average girl can find a guy to entertain her,,(look at 4 losers of american pie),,but for guys it is a big ordeal even if he wants to cheat,,getting a girl to screw around with (unless one is willing to spend like hell)

it is just natural that things often go easy way, just like a river never flows up the hill

Based on my experience, I think guys cheat more than girls do. I had a long distance relationship a few years ago and it went horrible. My bf cheated on me so badly that I feel cheated till this day and I find it hard to trust guys. I should've dumped him the day he left Nepal. That bastard!!

those men and women who say that they love and lie at the same time are scum of earth... they should suffer the rest of their lives... and they better know that karma comes back... temporary happiness by breaking someone will come back and the same thing will suffer them...

if you want to cheat/be unfaithful... tell him/her.. that you are doing so and leave him/her or let him/her make the decision... just don't lie... cheat but don't lie... and don't hide the truth... that is the worst thing... cheating isn't.. lying is... if you are sexually unsatisfied or want to be satisfied because you are away, it think the other should know and may be assist in making a temporary separation... don't say.. "i love you honey, i miss you baby, i am faithful you sweetheart", and bang with someone... terrible... satanic complex... should even be expelled from the neverland... let them suffer in the plane of pain

we alll have our experiences guys.but we can't blame the entire guy society or the girl society.
if u were 2 weight the cheaters,it'd be equal like the balance carried by insaaf ki raani.

i don't want to hate anyone no matter what... i keep reminding myself :

karma yoga purifies the heart by teaching us to act selflessly, without thought of gain or reward. by detaching yourself from the fruits of your actions and offering them up to the spirit, you learn to sublimate the ego. what happened yesterday happened. what will happen tomorrow will happen. what is happening now is happening. cannot worry about yesterday because it has already happneed. cannot worry about tomorrow because it has never happened. so, just enjoy the moment right now.

of course its the distance that plays significant role. [ i am NOT talking about PHYSICAL DISTANCE] rather virtual distance between heart and feelings [ due to love ] (O: got it ppl.. (O:

have cn relationship fail when they were physically living together. also cn relationship flourishing when ppl were 6000 miles apart (O: married after 5 years and living happily ever.

so, it all depends on sacrifice, commitment and dedication between ppls involved..... and of course [ NOT LOOKING FORWARD TO GREENER PASTURES ]

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but as always,
what do i know (O:

It's going well. I am out in the sea and my girl is waiting for me. It's ain't that bad. We gonna meet after half year so we are living on hope.

An object and an infinite angle

The long distance relationship did not work for me. After few months, it was only, hello how are you, how was your day, ani aru ke chaa ta ?? and I was madly used of that and all of a sudden I woke up and thought what am I doing with this short life getting used to a lifestyle where we used to still say “ I love you” and it was not really a feelings that came out of our real soul. We were lovers but the distance between us faded away the feeling of love that we had for each other.
I simply followed my hearts; we decided to go our own way. It was a sad end to a love story of many years but well life goes on…

Best of luck to you all those who are in that long dist. relationship

It can work beautifully, with a lot of commitment and effort...and it can also fail very miserably.It's totally dependent on the level of commitment of the two people. LDRs will only work if there is a concrete strategy for ending the LD part in somepoint of your relationship.

If I were writing the rules, I guess I'd have five big ones:

Rule number one: Communication is your friend.
Those cheap calling cards are your friend. So are e-mails and IM clients. And message boards and so on. And snail mail (care packages are the bomb). :)

Rule number two: Never go to sleep angry.
If you start a fight, finish it in the same conversation. Never 'sleep on it' - it just makes things worse, and you might do something you regret before you talk again. Unlike 'real' relationships, you don't get a chance to talk it over at breakfast before you go to work.

Rule number three: Make it work, no matter what.
If you are going to make this relationship work, you have to dedicate yourself to making it work. Long-distance relationships require at least twice the work of other relationships, and they have far less 'payoff.'

Rule number four: If it's not serious, don't bother.
The only truly successful LDR's that I've seen over the years are the serious ones. There are several times in the relationship where things look like it will end if it isnt for the fact that both are dedicated to the relationship.

Rule number five: Communication is your friend.
I know I said this before, but it bears repeating. In an LDR, communication is all you have. If you can't talk about absolutely anything and everything, you're going to get bored damned quickly.

Moreso than in any other kind of relationship, your LDR partner should be your best friend.

L.D.R,
lamoo durii ko sambandha
I blieved in it, but that was a long time ago,
And in the end what I realised is it takes lot of trusr,Dhaairyata,ani dheerai dheerai Maya

LDR failed miserably once - looks like it will work this time, I feel lucky...

Long-Dist-Relationship (LDR)...

LDR eh.. this could well be the one I might be taking a stab at then next! But I'll need to get rid of the SDR ones first though - the short distance ones! Good, innit?? :)

HEY KIWIGAL....nice to hear such things from u...but i believe there is no such things as commitement..., its so good that it worked for u., i am happy for u . but there is more likely that those relationships will end with no conclusions..."LIFE IS A GAME, A Gamble game". Just play it...SOmetimes it takes years n years to know that one single person.., while other time just a moment with someone makes u feel that she/ he is the rt one for u to spend ur whole life....the more u wait ..the more u gather pain and sufferings and there is no limit on these things....hey, what about a little tip-" LET THE LIFE FLOW ON ITS WAY, IT WILL FIND THE RT DIRECTION BECOZ LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL N SO UR !!!!"

bijays, if its easy for girls to find guys, why is it hard for guys to find girls? without a guy this whole process of cheating would have been impossible- cause a girl can't cheat without a guy, its only a matter of whether You're that guy :D

dc gal,
thats not true....both have hard time finding one if they're ugly.

Thanks Ladyinred for the tips. I think for long distance relationship we must have Honor, Courage and Commitment. See you after 3 months folks. Hurrah. Bye

hey hey hey hey D C GIRL...i am sorry but, u sound very "GHAMANDI". don't be too proud of urself.----" the person who boost of his knowledege proclaims his ingnorance"...
its not hard for guys to find girls,,yeha it is true its really hard to find the right girl..i am not offensive here...nor i am debating here...i just don't agree w/ u ...n in this free world everyone has rt to say..n one more thing i pray to god that one day i would love to encounter or see u in my life......

Any one in sajha met their gf/bf/wife/husband thru internet??? I am just wondering. IF so please fell free to share with us.