This may sound kinda wiered and conservative but very true. Can any nepali guy think why nepali girls go with indian or pakistani? I don't know if anyone even thought about it but this is a serious issue and challenge to nepali guys. I'm a nepali guy and personally I think nepali guys are more understanding and loving. Does anyone have anything to say on it??

gurungni,
i think u should look at that be4 stereotyping... u said u read the thread but looks like u did not.

now let b honest,
u have seen nepali grls too who would break 3-4 year of relationship for "better opportunities." i am sure u have seen "nepalese grls" sleeping around with couple of guys at the same time.
[so lets be honest these are just few exceptions]
[ i am sure there r more guys than gals but it is not fair to generalize]
we cannot take these exceptions and stereotype right??

"ek haat le tali ta bajdaina" .. both r at faults for things happening...

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but once again what do i knoe??

chameli,

"there is a difference in making friends and sleeping together;"
one thing a lot nepalese girls lack is acceptance. they are in this denial phase for a long time.

what is posted here about [inv. of paki and indian] may not be totally wrong though.. it depends in area of US. i have seen it a lot in some parts of MICHIGAN (o: [

but one thing i have to admit is [ lot of nepalese guys are stubborn, imposing double standard ] [ no offense to guys as well]

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in jest
what do i know

Sab bhanda pahila ta haasmukh lai interesting thread shuru gareko ma badhai....

I ddn know Indian and Paki Guys r so popular among Nepali gals.....Is it for real??? If its so there is no problem at all.. Tara jaha samma malai thaha chha Dherai nepali keti haru le Indian lai man paryaka hudainan............

Hey wot abt Indian and Paki gals??????????????

They r also just superb and so Sexy... Pakistani keti haru ko ta maja nai arkai chha yaar. They are like what we call in hindi "CHHUPA RUSTAM"

Damn!!!! i love these forums where i could share the way i live my life with other ppl.. who knows, somebody might inspired.....

Man, First of all.. what the hell on earth is "a nepali girl has to go out with a nepali guy"..... Ya'll are gonna be through alot of shit in life which is gonna be WORTHLESS if you dont still think that way....... Damn, finding somebody to be with/go out with is finding somebody whom you could relate to and share your MOMENTLESS TIME with... Doesnt mean that a nepali girl has to go out with nepali guy to find that happiness... different people have different way of thinking about life, and what they want out of it, and blah blah blah.... (too long).... but you get the point.... And for that a couple needs to be happy with each other.... and thats only gonna happen if they could understand each other...... SERIOUSLY.... THERE IS ABOSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH GETTING TO KNOW MORE PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME AS LONG AS YOU AINT COMMITTED AND LEADING SOMEONE ALONG...... Its about finding the right person, and this a short life, you cant be going thru one at a time, you might never find that someone.... and thats why you gotta give everybody a chance, you never know who it is....... Now, you might be like if you go out with alot then you might fall in for a lot... DIDNT SAY THAT ITS EASY TO FIND that PERSON..... so, whoever you like better coz of PERSONALITY (real deal).... then you should go after her...... and the other sex has to try harder and evenutally that is gonna pay off coz the person is finally gonna end up with someone who loves em AKA tries everything possible to make the other sex happy and changes for em...... SO, dont just be like, i am nepali and i gotta get with a nepali..... damn, imma do everything possible to live this ONLY LIFE I GOT HAPPILY!!!!! THE END ;)

I agree with gurungni. Before the girl says ok to the Nepali guy, nepali guys are like bees in a bee hive hoovering around her 24/7 and after they have dated for few months then he starts treating her like shit. He expects her to be at his beconing call like in Nepal. The guy has to remember she is in America too. and that's where the Indian, Paki guys come in, coz they treat her like foreiner and they respect her.

As long as your girl doesn?t cheat on you ( whatever nationality she happen to be ) why are u concerned about Nepali girls dating any other nationality or even alien ? let em decide what they want ! the bottom line is they prolly don't wanna be with you @ ( haas mukh) DUCK_FACE

Indians and Paki bois? chyaaaa! no way! but all nepali guys aren't all that either. Nationality and race shouldn't matter as long as the person is honest and decent.

Mr. Gallant's posting is the dumbest I have ever read in my life. Dumb Dumb Dumb!

He said, "It is shameful for all Nepali girls who go with Paki guys." Dude, did somebody ditch u to go around with a Pakistani? Aww feel sorry for u, but I repeat again, there is NO shame whatsoever in going around with a guy from any nation.

Now u guys have made me curious, what do Paki guys look like, we had none back in college. Maybe I should go around with one of them just for the heck of it ;)

See it might sound stupid but Nepalese guys first concentrate on work as they got to reduce their debt instantly and that is over their head as priority and girls when they come here the first thing is they need a support like get a ride goto the grocerry or other things like that and they are ever demanding in nature. Ind. and Pak. guys are like dogs waiting for piece of flesh and waiting for chance and as soon as they see that need of the girl they jump for it and start using them, and by the time the girl realises it is too late for her to undo the things and she has no other choice then sticking to them and following them.

>>Nepalese guys first concentrate on work as they got to reduce their debt instantly blah blah...

Aaakriti myaam, Nepalese guys re? Oh I guess I miss that bus, which one was that? eh...

Kasto Generalize garya yaar, ha..

Interesting thread going on here....and its become more and more interesting while I read all the posting here.... everyone has their own views and points. Being a Guy, I should support the GUYS thing, but i think GURUNGNI has good and valid point. Its not that all the guys are same as girls too but everybody has their own way of living life. I have seen sooo many guys are commeted to one relationship as well as girls. There is always exception. What I found is, we guys are free in Nepal as well as here in USA but girls, they were not as free as we are in NEPAL so once they came here, they think, nothing will STOP them from being a free. So we are not used to with those stuff and we were disagree with their behaviour. In our men dominant society, may be we dont like those stuff but that doesnt mean WE are free to do anything ??? the answer is NO, yeah its BIG NO, living abroad, most of we feel unsecure and we need someone to be there when we are down, everybody needs help from one another... but at that time, WE GUYS might think that they need US and me may take unfair advantage, which will turn them far from Nepalese GUYS and they will end up having relationship with different people.

NO matter how long we live abroad, still we like to settle with our own community because we grew up in social environment and we dont like to live individual life like here ( USA). In Relationship, there is always GIVE and TAKE and we need to loose something to GAIN something, so most of WE( guys) always want" 2tai haat ma laddu"... like to have extra affair and wants their GF/wife as satisabitri.......

wow the thread is getting longer..

I used to date nepali guys when i was in high schoool in India, they were lot less conservative than Indians..But then once I got around Rajputs / Punjabis..i wonder who was more conservative...

Back home in KTM i'd still date Nepalese, only those from my own school at least cause not only they were talll dark and hansy..they were as level headed as i were

OUt here, the nepali guys i come across, are mostly like danda kanda baata jhareko bhariya (maybe it is not YOU)..You know..just because they are here and we are here..they start talking shitt and think if we take a sip of rum ..they can act shit..which is soo pakkhey ..that i'd rather date goshts than the Nepalese here..no self respect,..

Then there are guys out here..who think just because they date a white girl they are in the top of the hill...and then there are some..who think just cuz they have 2 pennies extra in their pocket, they think they are HMG...big time losers..

I have nepali guys as frens..and we're so close because it has nothing to do with our private lives....period....its no fun dating a nepali guy anyways unless you're dead serious...so i guess other fishes seems much more attractive....But if one falls in love..can't blame the person..for love is blind..

well said hush, well said .. "But if one falls in love ... can't blame the person.. for love is blind". can't argue with that.

cheers,
nepaliKochoro

Nepali Girls are going along with globalization...exploring their horizons... as I'm sure guys are! Why is haasmukh getting Global- warmed and depleting his Ozone layer, thinking about environmental issues pertaining to females?!

And let's not forget the fact that most of the nepali guys are "dalleys" as compared to Indians and Pakistanis.

Hi Gals and Guys
I am quite new user. sometimes i used to look at this website. I think this is the best place for those who don't have job and enjoying with talking about the bullshit things.
But this time it is serious matter.
This is for the girls that i have seen around the USA. First Nepali girls forget who they are what what is the expectation of their parent. You girls wanna be global and modern. But you don't know the definition of the globalization and modernization. This can't not be acheived by changing the boyfriend and wearing very short dress. wlaking around the beach.
I have seen few pic of ANA . It is shame to look at that pic and say that these are the Nepali girls. It was totally the Neplai convention. Why you didn't wear the typical Nepali dress at least one day.
This is my own view. Lets see yours LADIES. BE Serious. Modernization is not wearing short dress and show everything!!!!!!!!!!!

I appreciate everyones ideas and opinion. The reason to start this thread was not to offend or annoy anyone but to realize ourself the changes we (nepalese) are going through stayin away from home. Everyone has their valid points and arguements. I think I am open to views and ideas as long as it is reasonable, practical and realistic. Also we are lucky to see and actually feel soo much cultural difference in our life. From traditional nepali to modern society abroad. Obviously we should adjust to our surroundings but we need to also remember where we actually belong. No matter how long we live abroad we cannot ignore the fact of who we are and our traditions.

you are right Haasmukh
I appreciate your view.
Thanks

What is a typical nepali dress? A dhoti, and a cholo? May be Dallas heat was unbearable to wear such dress, or may dhoti and cholo are not as comfortable and practical as skirt and jeans.
By the way, what is the definition of globalization and modernization when it comes to personal behavior and in this, sense of style, really?

From my point of view, wearing short and revealing clothes, is exercising freedom to choose. They came (from nepal), they saw (different clothing styles) and they chose (what was more comfortable, stylish, practical). That's all. If these choices were given in Nepal, the girls over there would do the same. And again, everybody's got freewill, and as long as their decisions don't hinder or hurt other people, why complain?

hi
Guys are wearing shirt and pant why girls need short cloths?