हैन हो। पचिस बसन्त पार गरियो। आमा ले देखाएको पन्द्र जना भन्दा धेरै केटी हेरी सके, एौता पनि मन परेन। आफ्नो नजिकै बस्ने समुदायमा हुने जस्तो एौता पनि केटी छैनन। के गर्ने होला? यहाँ का दाजु-दिदिहरुले के गर्नु भएर जोडी खोज्नु भएको थियो? सल्लाह-सुझाब भये एस्सो दिनु भये आभारी हुन्थिए! 

Try dating dna or craiglist bro

 क्या सुझाब दियौ यार। Craigslist, e-harmony, match.com बाट कहान क्यासउअल डेटिङ को कुरा गर्या हो र। I was more getting into knowing a way of avoiding arranged/fixed relationship. 

Thanks for the reply though. 

This seems to be the issue among all Nepali guys living in the States. 
"Women are like parking spaces, good ones are taken, the rest are hadicapped". 

Footyman, payeu ta matching girl???

Footyman-- networking and selling yourself to all YOUR relatives..mothers..aunts..sisters..cousins..tell them what kind of a girl u are looking for..be very clear...first know what u want and then its easier to look for a girl for u..and remember to flaunt ur achievements..girls like that and who ever is trying to find u the perfect girl will know exactly what to say about u too..

Good luck Footyman..when the right time comees the right person will just come to ur life be assured about that..its all about when and who u are meant to be..

 Are you all mocking me? 

 १,२ मन नपरेको भएको केटीलाई दोश लाउन हुन्थ्यो अब १५ जनमा एउटा पनि मन नपरेको भनेको पछी समस्या चाँही केटीमा होइन तिमीमा छ यार।  Either your not being realistic or you got some confusion on your sexual preferences lol no offense hai bro!

 hahahhaa. You just hurt my feelings. 

Sorry bro i will take my words back if that makes you feel better.

 Nah. Its all good. 

 पच्चीस बसन्त पार गरिसक्दा नि  एउटा PERMANENT GF  बनाउन नसक्ने कस्तो नामर्द यार तिमी त!!

 "पच्चीस बसन्त पार गरिसक्दा नि  एउटा PERMANENT GF  बनाउन नसक्ने कस्तो नामर्द यार तिमी त!! "

Now Jangali manab is hurting me.  Pacchis basanta agadi kati jana GF banayen bhanne kura sodheko bhaye hunthiyo ni. 

lol footyfan!! anii tetro gf banako bela !! euta permanent gf banaunupardaina ta ?

 1 Honest suggestion. 

If you're a guy/girl when you're around 22-23, only date someone that you see good future with. Quite a number of my female friends have turned into "budhi kanyas" because they messed it up by making poor decisions. Its all upto an individual but back in college, this girl (a really good friend of mine) was always obsessed with a guy's looks over his background (family, decency, IQ level, other habits) and was dating this guy (live-in relationship) for almost 2-3 years. They had great fun together and were like the perfect match (looks wise). The guy was dashing, the girl was a hottie. 

Things didn't go well because the guy was also a jackass. The girl was smart, too but not so smart. She's already made a career in the City that she lives in and is pretty popular in the same city. Also, during their relationship, they were notoriously having physical encouters like in cars, restrooms of the clubs etc and now that they've broken up, no guy wants her. The guy, he's still living it up. He's still good looking and he continuously finds chicks who're wooed by his looks. When it comes to settling down, he'll find a chick without any fuss as he's already spent 3-5 years in the US (idiots in Nepal think that as some sort of achievement, too) despite him being a complete jackass who's yet to complete his AA. 

I know all this because I'm really good friends with her. She was a babe with a wild side, pretty smart, great looking but somewhat foolish. 

I guess youngins could take lessons too. Look for quality, not appearance only. If you're a girl in mid 20s with a 'dark' history, what you're gonna have to endure won't be so pleasant thanks to the way Nepalese perceive about women.  

Footyfan, I live in Fremont myself. Hit me up, lets grab a beer sometime. Send me ur number. 

 That's why I used the word 'PERMANENT'. Tetro GF banauda ek janalai ni Jodi banauna sakenau ta??? 

Hoina timra atitka GF kasta thiye yaar,  Kasta GF rojeu timile??.....Sanka garne thau po bhayo ta!!! 

आँखा त तिम्रो फुटेकै जस्तो छ !!!

hahah!!!bichara kharabi ta hamro kto maii cha jasto cha!!!!lol!!1

 25 is too young to get married.  30 kaateko bhaye, lu hataar garoom saathi ek-dui barsha bhitra ma, bhannu hunthyo.  You still have time to play the field and/or to find your soul-mate.

Plus, gone are the days when eligible bachelor can choose his mate like dasai-ma boka-bakhra chaaney ko jasto.  

 Alece, priorities were different back then. 

Jangali, kati rag hanira ho? 

Quagmire, I think you nailed it. Us,men definitely have a massive upperhand. A "bigreko" Nepali guy finding a decent girl isn't that difficult but a "bigreko" Nepali girl finding a decent guy unless she's duping him is a tough ask. That's why I advise my own female friends to be extremely cautious. I've got a buddy in Sunnyvale area. So if I were to visit him sometime, I'll give you a buzz. 

Nepali_American, I think my nobel intentions  are somewhat misunderstood. I'm not in any rush but you know, considering how one of my cousins (a DV winner) didn't get married until he became a US citizen is a decent lesson to me. Also, I've got a friend who's in a relationship with a married woman whose husband lives in the US. Long-distance is okay but intercontinental relationship is a big no no. I mean, visiting your gf/wife once every 12-36 months is really torturous. Further, if I were to get married at this very moment, my newly wed girl will not be with me until 2015 or so (based on current visa processing timeline for GC holders). Ani aba ahile herera 2-3 years ma bihe garne ra 2-3 barsa pachi kura garnu ma ali farak cha ni.  Also, like Quagmire said, it does appear that a majority of good ones are already taken. I wish more married people came forward and shared their stories as in whether they got married while studying over here together, or they got married but got to live together only after either of the spouses' visa petition got approved after a few years. 

And Violet, are you mocking me too now?