Ok i have been having feelings for guys! well Honestly I felt this way when I was back home as well! But I tried to supress those feelings or thought I was sick n was wondering if there are any brothers/sisters that are going through the same situation!

I just want to laugh.

One of my roomie was a Gaypali (Gay-Nepali). He is out of closet but his dad back home neither knows it nor would understand it.
Don't feel bad; just accept it and roll with it.

 

Another pooper poker.
                                       Hey goodluck bro......hope you find your guy.

Pooper poker? I think there's a lot of pooper poking with heterosexuals too. Generation gap bhayo jasto chha bajey lol.

Hoina wonton bro....pooper pokin between a keta and keti bhanya hoina ni..........pooper pikin between two keta po bhanya ni...its a slang for gay kya..nothing wrong bieng gay its all about personal preferences........I cant even imagine two guys pooper pokin......but its sexy when its a man and woman..........But its still dirty....Bone smuggling, Driving the Hershey highway, Enter through the back door, Plowing the back field, Gardening uphill, Goin' to brown town..............

For all those gays

Visible101 its nothing wrong being who you are, some ppl in sajha havent' changed there thinking even they lived abroad. you can't help this people coz they have a problem themselves. I know few guys who came out and declared they are gay. they went back to nepal and part of "blue diamond " society. people are accepting more. so be who you are. dont' worry what other says'

Its a first step atleast you accept who you are.

all the best mate !!

लालपुर्जा lol..

 @Visible101, I have a childhood French Nepali friend (French Parents but born and bought up in Nepal) and she has lots of Gay friends in Nepal and I have met few while I was in Nepal. I don't want to reveal their identity but some were "Who's Who of Kathmandu"!!...Everybody had their own Story, life and their own love stories!!

I believe there is a HOTLINE where you can talk and ask for counseling if you are feeling pressured  www.glnh.org/

Just be who you are and enjoy your life.......

Q2: How do you know if you’re gay?

A2: Understanding your sexual orientation is really about understanding your long-term feelings and attractions. It has nothing to do with whether you have acted on those feelings yet or not. Just about all mainstream mental health experts now believe that someone’s sexual orientation, regardless of whether they are gay, lesbian, straight or bisexual, is something that forms in each person either before we are born, or within the very first few years of each person’s life. Way before we are making conscious decisions about anything. So people don’t choose to be gay, just like people don’t choose to be straight. Being gay, lesbian or bisexual may not be as common as being straight, but it is considered just as normal. While not everyone falls perfectly under the labels of “gay”, “straight” or “bisexual”, generally someone who is attracted in a physical and/or romantic way to only people of the same-sex might consider themselves to be gay or lesbian. People who are only attracted to people of the opposite-sex might consider themselves to be straight and someone who has some level of attraction to both males and females might consider themselves to be bisexual.

Source:www.glnh.org/about/faq.html

Thank You for all your suggestions!!!!  I am very straight acting and no one in my family or friends know about this!
@ Nas --Sathi, mile keti haru sanga kehi gareko china bhanne no sochnu hola ........but every time I did it......i  had to force myself to think of a guy ..N i don't wanna be some 40-50 year old regretting for what I should have or could have done!
Crazy nep ra Lahure khancha li dheri Dhanyabad!
@stiffler --mile usko posting padheko thiye..Dheri khusi lagyo! Ek choti I would like to get in touch wih him....Is there ay wayI can get hold of him.

Euta kura...jaba mi gay/lesbian ko kura garchu ni khali sex sang matra no jodhi dinu hola.......we have 24 hrs n it' not what I think of doing 24/7 ...ma pani tapi haru jasto student n hu..I go to school, kaam....kahile keta haru sanga hangout .....just simple n normal stuffs that goes around with it....

One thing that amazes me is 1080 views ri cha ( mile agi  check garda) that tells me that Im not the only one going through this situation! :)

@ Nas ,

sathi. tapile jun dhanga bata afno dharana haru prastut garnu huncha .......I just love it whether or not u support me !!!  Thank you it's really respect ful !!
प्रकृतिले केटा मान्छेलाइ माहुरी झैँ बनाईदेका छन् ! हामीले त धेरै भन्दा धेरै फूलहरु चुस्न पर्छ साथि ! तेसैले साथि, कृपया केटा संग लभ नगर्नुस !
 yO line ta mero fevret banchan ni ...tei ho haha

Mampakha this guy seems seriously serious... Bro timi jatho lai amerika lagya matra ho, u gotta get ur ass laid first, noone is born gay or lesbian, it's that free time that you have which is turning into a devil

Even though we primarily have two genders - male and female, this is not an absolute measurement of one's gender identity. Even though physically we might be able to categorize into 2, 3 or 10 genders (based on organs and physical features), the composition of brain and the body as a whole (inside and outside) can only define one's gender precisely. So to say no one is born gay, lesbian is to say no one is born straight too.

thank u retrospect!

Hina ho keta ko , Im proud to be man n mile mero gender mathi kile pani question garina.its just my sexuality...aba tapi haru ni bhannus mera american graduate/ pade lekheka modern nepali haru is Gender n sexuality same thing????Nope I guess not,,,,,,,I might b e your frind fat beat ani timi le mali ramrari chinna pani sakchau! But u have never thought that I could be gay!

looks like folks are confused about their sexuality.

you can go through these steps:

1. put your one finger up your arse
2. say 30

Results:
If you say 30 right away, you are not gay

If you start counting 1,2,3 ..... 30, you need to find a good guy



@Visible101:
YOu are brave enough to express yourself openly in public forum. Hope you find the right fit for you.
Goodluck

Euta kura .tapi haru le mali jatti gali garnuhos, fohor kura bolnuhos! It does not matter kina bhane ma li support garne sathi haru pani thupra ni chan bhanne kura pani mile mahasus gareko chu!

P.s. Media ma gay bhanera jun kura prastut garincha ni sabi manche testo holan bhanera no sochnu hola!  Tesko matlab keti jasari bani haru bhako keta haru pani chan ...nabha ko hina.....tara sabbi jana teso hundinan bhanne kura pani yaad rakhnu hola!
Aba udharan hernus .Ricky Martin tyo gay bhanda ta ma ni chakka haha !!! testo BOLd image bhako ,,,,,keti haru ori pri..tesle tali bajayo bhane 2-3 jana keti tesko samu aye pugthyo hola! But he turned out to be GAY....so, it's not about gender mera sathi haru ho...it's about sexuality!

@Default 061...
Thank you sathi...ra tapi le atti ni hasaunu bho!
Ta pi haru jasta manche le garda ni ho ali aat ako yesri post garn li! Katti try gare mile ma li change garna li ...0r gay bata staight huna li  ani balla ahile aayera mahasus bhayo ki I was never wrong in the first place! :)