She says she is busy at school when I ask where she was all day. Sometimes she says the traffic was bad or she was out of gas. It seems like she is pretending. Guys, can you please let me know how to keep track of her.

Sometimes, it is better to focus on solution than problem. Instead of tracking her, let her loose.

I'd say don't try to. It's not worth the effort and the stress. Life is too short to be spent worrying about the whereabouts of your girl/guy.  If you feel she is not spending enough time with you, or not honestly sharing her whereabouts when you ask her, there isn't much you can really do. If you can't trust her to do the right things when she is not with you, then maybe you  need to think whether she is the one you want to be with. Maybe there is another girl for you some where out there,  someone  you can trust and not have doubts about.

Before the bra-burning feminists on Sajha go bombastic on me, let me say that I would give the same advice if it was a girl in Jiban's place asking that question.  Not worth the stress  - boy or girl.

But that's just one person's thought.

Good luck

install a gps tracking system on her car or better when she is sleeping install inside her you know what, that way you will know exactly where she is.

you can get boost-mobile phone for both of you and both of you can keep track of both of you. you know the exact location of the person by looking in the map on your phone, so no more lying and cheating...

later

I agree with Haddock, if she is truly not trust worthy then maybe you should think about not being with her.. But is it possible that you are doubting her for no reason at all? If she is truly honest with you and is totally  committed to you then would you want your doubtful nature to come between the relationship? I think you should look for proof for your doubts... And if you dont find any, then maybe its time to change your thoughts.. and if you cant, you should not continue with the relationship. You will never be able to be happy if you are always doubting on someone!

haawaa fuskya jasto cha..LOL.

yo sajha ko threads kina yasto hasaaune maatrai?

You r too conservative!! you r not good for her,forgt her.May be your is too small she needs big one ,let her enjoy!!

you are over suspicious !!!let her be where she wants to be. Freedom is important in life, be free and let other free too.. man. Does she ask you where u go? what u do ?

Dont chase girl . let them chase u .. and believe me if she likes u .. she will ..

else No point .. leave her alone .. I will chase her ... Kidding

But it hurts. What to do.

Exactly Captain,
Life is really short for it. If she has a problem with you then let her go. Don't try to stop, you will get someone who will understand you ( I won't say better cause everyone is). or Keep changing unless you find one (this is the reality my friend otherwise stop spying). You should be concerned but the other way. You need to know if she is leaving  you so that you can find one for yourself too.

Talk to her. She might be right every times. Tell her softly but clearly that if she has problem with you, she can leave. Don't ever try to blame her. She is also living a independent life as you do.

 Don't panic about GF. Relations form often. One in your destiny survives. Good luck!

Sometimes its easy to track by VIN number.

All right ...my few words..

have you tried yourself  explore what is out there..? Perhaps she needs some space...without you....she needs time to think what she really wants......or she may be busy with school or work......take a break in your relationship try  dating other people....it is very effective to find out areyou  "in love" or else..!Be a Man..!

All right ... here is my few words..

have you tried yourself  exploring  what is out there..? Perhaps she needs some space...without you....she needs  some time to think what she really wants......or she may be busy with school or work..... whydont you .take a break in your relationship. try  dating other people....it is very effective to find out. are you  "in love" or else..!Be a Man..!


Tracking is a big NO NO..!

I am mostly soft with her. When I feel like she is cheating then my anger grows. Then, I would talk to her with loud and dominating voice. I sometimes feel that I might be wrong. But when I find so many unbelieveable pretendings I start to think other way. Its very easy to kick her out and find new one. But, its very very hard to do that.

To me, it looks like you and yr "she" is having problem and none of you want to confront it. Instead of thinking how to keep track of her, u better get hold of her and talk. Let her know what is going through yr heart and ask her what she thinks about the relationship(you and hers). Then, i think u can reach to a fruitful conclusion. Running away and hiding feelings only prolong suffer.

I don't know how to to keep track of such girls.

First and foremost, I know what you mean Jiban. It is always easier said than done. We are all human beings, and we have emotions and once, we find someone we like, we don't want to let go of them. I had the same issue you did, once. And, it was harder for me to understand because I was not living close to her. I would be constantly trying to get in touch with her. And, one day I said to myself that it's all not worth it. If somebody's willing to cheat on you now, they will probably not hesistate to cheat on you later. That said, don't always come to conclusions. We all have our freedom, our space and, maybe she wants to be by herself sometimes. Let her think over it. If you stress your points by arguing with her, she is not going to listen. She will never listen, if you don't loosen up.  Get the point across to her, slowly and steadily. If you think she is having a bad day, let it be. Talk about it some other time. We want people to tell us things that we want to hear. If you really want to be with her, work on it. Let it be. If she's not the right one, this world is yours to explore. You can't force yourself into anything, and neither can you force her to do it. If she really wants to be with you, she'll come to you. No matter what. If she's not the one, be strong and move on.

I changed my priorities. I told her what I felt. Even if you track her down to her every step, it's not going to work out if you are always in-doubt. So, live free my friend! Choto cha jiwan - live up to it! No worries brother. Have fun!

naya girlfryand banaune ani purano girlfryand lai engagement bhanera bolaune ani antaksri khelne...

josle jitcha teslai free steel reserve for the rest of thier lives...

drink responsibly

ani bhuwan kc lai latta le hanne..

Guys

Thanks for your views. I am trying to overcome this situation. You know, its very very hard when it happens to you.