Hi Aygya ,

First of all i want to give u congratulation because u found someone special for you. Aygya ma aja ekdam khusi chu ki tapaile tapaile khoje jasto life partner paaudai hunuhuncha . tapai ko life ramro hos ma bhagawan sanga wish garchu ki tapailai tyo tapaiko life partner le life bhari saath diyos ani euta wife le dine maya tapailai life bhari milos . sayad bhagawan ko marji nai yestai thiyo ani mero kismat ma tapai hunuhunathiyo . malai thaha chha maya garera paaunu nai parcha bhane chaina . maya garera gumanu pani thulo den ho . feri tapaile ta ma bhanda pani padeki ani dherai ramri kt paaunu bhayeko chha tysma ma khusi hunu parcha . yedi aafule maya gareko manche aru sanga khusi huncha bhane tysma afu pani khusi huna saknu parcha yedi sakiyena bhane tyo sirf swartha huncha . tapaile bhanu bhayeko thiyo ni malai aba timile ramro keta herera marriage gara . Aygya tapaiko marriage ma ma khusi chu malai afno marriage ko jarurat chaina . ma aja pani tapailai maya garchu tara ma tapaiko khusi ma badhak bandina .

At last nice ur life .

good news to naakpore ! dude, you are not alone.

Go kick his ass instead of coming to sajha. He really deserves it. But he might have his own stories as well. May be you didn't deserve her. In any case if there is an incompatibility, better get separated sooner than later.

Correction: May be you didn't deserve him.

what has happened 2 all ppl.
c'mon...is love that painful?

This is pretty gay!
Yeah "ma aja pani tapailai maya garchu tara ma tapaiko khusi ma badhak bandina," but I will just make the story public. Thats definitely not being a hurdle in someone's life. So SMART!!!

The story is public, identity is not. There can be thousands going through similar situation. I don't think there's anything wrong in sharing what one is going through. The only thing that I sometimes feel is: we don't get to listen to the other side of the story. Like in this case, who knows, why Aygya is upto this. I mean boys can be bastards but girls can be bitchy too at times. You never know.

eh Louna bichhod bhayechha, nepali nari ko!

I don't know why girls have to cling to the guys when they know it is not going to work. Alright, the guy took another turn. so, what?

Are you going to moan about it forever? Don't be bitchy about it because you know its gone!!! I hate people who cry over so-called love!!!

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Sirjana, You've done the right thing writing your words over this public forum where your identity is just void! Dont believe me ? OK .

Read this :
http://personals.yahoo.com/static/relationships_heal-breakup-beliefnet

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Tip #3: Write it Out

After a breakup, the heart and soul often feel overwhelmed with emotions and memories. Pouring your anger, hurt, confusion, sadness, regret, or even relief or apology into a heartfelt letter to your ex is a great first step toward healing yourself of these feelings. Then, make a ritual of getting rid of the letter instead of sending it. Either put it in a special private box, tuck it into a journal, or toss it into a crackling fire.
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And to those people who never had a bad relationship and call her bitchy just because she wrote it , i say : perhaps it was not HER who is bitching, it could be YOU! grrrrr : )

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By the way, some notes for you!

confessions :
1. I somewhat liked that name " Aygya " . Must be a hunk, eh ? ;) How is it pronounced?
2. I never read relationship stories at YAHOO. It so happened, i accidently browsed and read that article some fine day, which i bookmarked. Little did i know, it would come handy this day to share! : )

suggestions :
1. Read that article. I know you'd feel better! Good luck for that.

sirjana - Good luck with life!! :D

VincentBodega - ohhh please!! maybe it was important for her to let him know that she still loves him but she won't do anything about it. Maybe she will gain a lot more satisfaction and the courage to move on, if at least he knows even though he is married to someone else.
DUH! don't be so stupid!!!
:D

and oh,
bibas100 - she's not going to moan about it forever.
and to answer your question, you know why? cause you need to have a so called "heart". You can't just forget about it!! well, unless of course if you don't have a so called "heart"!! :D

nails maiya,
timilai pani testai paryo ki kya ho??
hehe...well i don't have a heart...but I do have rational thinking. I don't pursue things from one side. One-sided love is not really a love-it is a selfish attraction!

There is no point making a fuss about someone ditching her. Unless, of course she is looking for some sympathy. It is her private affair and it is best kept within her.

In any case, don't be a bitch on me now. And, good luck for your finals!!!

By the way, are we going to have a momo party in the summer? Its been more than a year since you promised that haina?

bibas100 - do you think that could ever happen to me?? unless of course it's the other way around!! don't talk about the impossible!! ;)

Yep, I agree you don't have a heart!! :D and about the rational thinking, hmm...this is a different matter, you can't even use rational thinking here, it's all about the so called "heart". And here, she loves him and that's why she's even writing this down, because it's not selfish attraction as you put it. If it was i am sure she would be on to someone else by now!! DUH!!!
and, she's not making a fuss about it!! she just wanted to write down her emotions!! what's the problem with that?? and it's not like she specifically mentioned names or something.

Yeah, good luck on your finals too!! hope your exam today went well!! ;)
and about the momo party, promises are meant to be broken and since i've become a college student i am broke. So, why don't you give me a momo party instead, and that way i'll get a chance to kick your roomate's ass too!! :D

Sirjana looks like a pimp-girl. She shouldn't post her feelings in Sajha.com, if she would love him.
It’s look like she/he proofed himself/herself as a smart fool. As I understand from reading this thread, I don't believe that it was a real story. Ssomeone drunk and smoke ganja, and came to vomit here. Her statement looks hypothetical or fabricate.

nepali maiya haru ko padhero jhagada

Thanks for all Reply . thanks Bibas sayad tapailai thaha chaina ki real love k ho kina ki tapaile sayad kasailai real maya nai garnu bhayeko chaina ki ta tapaile yedi kasailai garnu bhayeko chha bhane pani tapai ko maya ma swartha chha u r saying so - called love . cheeeeeeeeeeeeeee love lai so-called bhanu bho tapai le huna ta maneche ko herne nazar huncha yo blog ma maile dherai ko bichar pade . kasari ko nepali nari lai ijat diyeko word paaye bhane kasaile pimp girl bhaneko pani bhetaye . nails thanks thank u very much i know u know what is real love? ani thopa thanks kina ki tapaile yeslai padhera ko jhagada sochnu bho yo ra sirf mero lover lai pathayeko message thiyo jaslai maile aja pani love garchu . sabai jana lai thanks maile sabai jana ko view pade . at last thanks for suggestion . ya i am nepali nari . yop satya ho ki ma Aygya lai maya garchu ki yeslai naramro nasochnus maya garnu naramro kura hoina .

Old maven thanks for suggestion . i like ur suggestio.

I believe this is real story. Look at other threads she had created for this guy who she was waiting for eight years believing his guy will return one day from America and will be together. It seems Ayagya has returned now and married another girl. What a pity. She won’t forget this love for life that’s for sure. Her congratulation resembles one that was written by Manju (OK’s true story ‘Manju malai maaf gari deu hai’).

Move on Srijana, Ayagya was your one love; I am sure you will find another one who will truly love you and heel your pain.

Question,
Sirjana, how long have you waited for him, and when did you meet him last time, did you have any physical relationship with him yet? If you had physical relationship or his assurance letter given to you that he loves you or any promise he had made with you that he is going to get married with you, you can sue that guy. I believe he doesn’t know at all what is happening in sajha.com. Someone knows him very well and made fun of him.