when i was in nepal i used to think if i go to U.S. i will do this...i will do that..i will earn this much..spend here and there...but after coming here...life is just getting busy...starts my day with class than work all evening till midnight...and sometimes i just don't fill like working that why i have quit more than 5 works.....i am just waiting for 1 year when i will be usa citizen an d all my family..i miss nepal..a lot...from frens to relatives to chatpate bhaiya..

what's chatpate bhaiya? is it a fast food joint?

As far as I know, it's a Nepali version of "Drive-by" system of serving "fast food". ha ha

Yup, i do agree. I too came here with the same dreams..well but we do have much to accomplish...don't give up...well i do feel low at times and think life sucks...most of us hadn't worked back home so its difficult...but we might be mighty proud in the future..hey and chatpate means this chat pat bhujiya that madishey brings...damn i miss that too..

maile sajha herna thaleko dherai bhayeko chaina tara yo khaobaadi ...is he or she?hey if you are he than you need to put your balls in extreme hot water with a drop of acid if you are she than you need a boob and butt job...but other sajha members are cool...tyehi ta hamro pani ekdin samaya aula hoina ta...i am just waiting for that day..

USAGAL
What the heck is wrong with you...???

Define life!

phew...good thing i did not say anythign to anger usagal.... i certainly don't fancy being on the receiving end of her diatribe.

khaobaadi, yaad cha hajur le kasto kasto comment lekheko thiyo..usa ma nepali student ko death bhanne heading ma..yeti chado birseko...malai ta tyeti khera nai answer dinu mann thiyo tara i was very sad by that accident...tara khaobadi...sajha ko aru thread ma hernu hola...khoi ni yesto rude comment gardaina hola..tara hajur ko ta kurai arkai...sajha ko owner jastai garnu huncha..tara euta kura yaad garnu..ki..always try to respect other...i don't know where are you ?usa ho ki nepal ...india..wherever..tara usa ma basne nepali haru ko life lai hernu paryo...dukha garera..raat din kaam garera...afno family bata thada ...bidesh ma afai padhera kehi garne sapana thiyo hola ...just think that way...aaba pani bujena bhane...you need to go and heat water....extreme hot please

Hey Usagal,
I just wanted to assure you on what u just gave a thought on. It will come. Your day will come. Just need to be patient. And patience is such a think baby, that you cant set a deadline to it. But at the end of the day, it will get done in such a fashion you wont realise ur pay was gettin deposited directly to ya bank for all ya hard work. Just you didnt get a stub and that u thought you never got paid. Look at yourself right now, from what you were back home, and what you are. You are in the process of being made. And thats soulful girl. You have become a hustler, a survive of your own and that one day when u acheive what you wanted to, you will be sooo proud of yourself, all that each pay was worth, u will enjoy that in that one day. I promise it will baby.
US makes u a lady, a lady that u is worth. And that it will pull the last inches of your boldness and strength out of your innocent Nepalese beauty that u are made up of. And I promise its worth it. Your mistakes that you mentioned, I promise you will thank them. Could have learnt things easier way, but oh well at least now u know. So thank everything moment, work hard, stay fokiseed and god bless baby gurl, sooon enough u will realise ur account been paid every two weeks of every month of every year. Peace!

snurp bru, i dont hav a dictionary. Bholtira kiney ra bhandau laaa...timi lai life bhaney charo ko defination!!!.

Usagal
You should be transported to Nazi Era Buchenwald Concentration Camp where you will be subjected to large scale medical testing of vaccines. While undergoing the "lab testing" you will be subjected to slow death by torture.

The body will ultimately tossed in an unmarked mass grave. The "Final Solution" will be complete.

This will be my "Final Solution" for people who cannot figure out the harmless humor behind what I write in various threads in sajha.com.

Well as far as I know...respecting and disagreeing are two totally different things which are independent of each other. I believe respect doesnt mean I have to agree with everyone else on everything.

People can respect and have disagreements at the same time or have neither of two.
Freedom of expression comes into play here. I dont live in a socitey of "conformity" therefore I speak my mind. If you disagree with my ideas you are also free to do so (just like I do) and you are very welcome to put your own ideas forward.

I might sound rude for some people but I have absolutely no problem telling axactly as I see it. I have absolutely no problem being BRUTALLY frank (and honest).

usagal: i have a similar life as yours, so please marry me once you get your HARIYO PATTA !!

Khaaobadi: you owe an APOLOGY to all the sajha users not for being rude but for being absolutely stupid !!

hehhe well i have learned that to get somethings u have to give up somethings so

"Stupidity" depends on how you look at it and how you want it be shown.

it's not how you look at it; it's how you do it...

whatever comments you made on the topic last time were simply not apt to the situation

rest you decide

Luckly I can alter how I see things and also alter how I want things to appear.

The exchange between usagal and khaobadi hit a funny bone somewhere. Priceless!

And to think Zalim Singh was "almost" left standing in hot water! :D

Zalim, how goes it with you this new year?

Happy New Year Guys! Cheer up usagal!