RC,
These days USCIS is doing lots of check esp with Desi Consultants..Most of the Time RFE is issued with request for Client Letter and what not..
How about finding a real Job..I know in this Job market it's tough but i presume that u already have 3 years of US working experience , give it a try for finding a real Job..Then do the extension of ur H1B..
How about switching back to F-1 if u have 3-4 most recent Valid paystubs..In that way u can buy ur time and Look for a Job without havng to worry about the H1b status..If u get a Job then have the employer file for extension...
Or, you can go back to Nepal until the situation in US becomes more stable..U already have H1b and i presume that u r already counted against the CAP ,so u won't be counted against the CAP again..Find a Job and come back to States...
And don't be out of Status..as u might already know " Until the Employer -Employee Status remains" u will be in status otherwise u r not..
Best of Luck