I know everyone has a story to tell and here is mine...
I have been in a relationship with this girl for two years. Initially I did not know that she was already married, she did not tell me at the beginning. She seems to be really understanding and down to earth.
But, now I feel like I should not be having a relation with her. I think about her husband and the one kid she has...I don't want her to cheat her husband. At the same time, she is addicted to me, she loves me from heart. She feels lonely without me.
I am not sure what to do as I am thinking about getting married soon and I do not want this relationship to cause problems. I want to leave the girl but she is threatening me saying that the consequences of me leaving her would be serious. I do not want to make her sad but I don't want her to divorce and get married to me either...
So, what should I do? Guys, serious suggestions only please..............

stupid
you are in relation with her for two years and you didnot find out in two years that she was married and had a child. What sort of relation did you have??/ make sense

well, if she did not let you know while starting relationship with you then she lied to you. she has her husband a baby and still wanted relationship with other guy means she is not a committed person. i dont know why she did that to her husband and baby, but that is very wrong. you can tell her that you started relationship with her thinking that she is single and unmarried, but it turned out otherway around, so you can not marry her. it is better for her as well to return back to her husband and kid. bu the way, is she away from her husband? do not marry her rather ask her to go back to her husband.

I have same srory like studidman.i have having love or friendship i cant understand but i feel ,i m in love.i love her every word what she is saying.i love her every concept what she speak to me.even i miss her if i forget to call.
same way she disclosed her things to say she is married.but i m not saying she is wrong.when i know her reality to feel love with other guy i dont feel she is wrong.i only like to say our system of marriege like arrange marrage is very hard to adjust for every one.there is lot of things we have to adjust.some of then adjust to say that its her punishment some of then try to fullfill their feeling by finding their true one,but in our society we cannt escape to face our culture,things we have.like family.....personly i dont bleam to anyone."love is blind".pls i m sorry if i m wrong.keep on suggesting.

Dear stupidman,

First of all dont call urself stupidman, if u want to settle things, first start from yourself. i see the first thing u should do is chnage this nickname.

secondly i dont think you will really get some great ideas from sharing your thoughts here but least u can expect something.

The decision u make to day will will reflect in your future. consult someone who is man of God and lives holy.

I will pray for you,
kind regards.

You are not stupidman you are genius!!!!!look at the bright side - you get kid in bonus,
no hassle of finding another girl, you will make her husband so happy :P