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गत मार्च महिनाको १७ तारिख आमाको घरकी सन्चालक दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठलाई एक कार्यक्रमकाबिच भव्य सम्मान गरिएको थियो । उक्त दिन उनलाई सम्मान मात्र गरिएको थिएन कि दक्षिण कोरियामा रहेका नेपाली समुदायले एकजुट भएर गरेको सहयोग रकम कार्यक्रम स्थलमै ७१ लाख वन (झन्डै रु.५ लाख बढी) संकलन भएको थियो । 
यतिखेर उक्त सम्मानको कुरालाई लिएर विभिन्न प्रश्नहरु उब्जिएको छ । दक्षिण कोरियामा रहेका नेपालीहरुले परोपकारी मनले आमाको घरका वृद्धवृद्धाहरु र द्वन्द्वपिडित बालबालिकाहरुका लागि दिएको ७१ लाख वन मध्ये उनले कसरी ३ लाख ६७ हजार वन मात्र पाइन् ? आयोजकले त्यत्रो पैसा के के मा खर्च गर्यो ? दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठको आवाज रेकर्ड भएको एउटा “भिडियो क्लिपस्”  मा उनले ३ लाख ६७ हजार वन मात्र पाएको र बाँकी रकम प्लेन टिकट, खादा, पोष्टर लगायत कार्यक्रममा खर्च भएको बताएकी छिन् । कार्यक्रम स्थलमा भएको फोटोहरु समावेश गरिएको भिडियोमा उनले मलाई सम्मान गर्नु ठूलो कुरा हो र मेरो पैसाले सम्मान गरेको जस्तो भए पनि म खुशी छु भनेकी छिन् । 

यस भिडियोको बारेमा आयोजकसँग प्रश्न राख्दा आयोजक मध्येकी भिजन नेपाल नेटवर्ककी अध्यक्ष आस्था विन्दु मल्ले दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठका लागि संकलन भएको रकममध्येबाटै हवाई टिकटको पैसा कटाउने आयोजकहरुबीच सहमति भएको बताइन् । तर अन्य सम्पूर्ण खर्चहरु आयोजकहरुले नै गरेको दावी गर्दै त्यो भिडियो क्लिप्स् मा उनले बोलेको कुरा सुन्दा निकै अचम्म र अपत्यारिलो लागेको मल्लले बताइन् । कार्यक्रमको लागि हल भाडा ४ लाख वन र दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठले “बरु आधा पैसा म हाल्छु एउटा ल्यापटप किन्दिनु” भनेपछि टोशिबाको ल्यापटप ६ लाख वनमध्ये आफूले ३ लाख ५० हजार वन हालिदिनुको साथै उनको लागि खान र बस्नको व्यवस्था गरेको आस्था विन्दु मल्लले बताइन् । दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठलाई दैनिक चर्च जानुपर्ने भएकोले ३।४ दिन मात्र आफूकहाँ बसेको बताउँदै मल्लले कार्यक्रम सकिएपछि सम्पूर्ण रकम उनलाई दिने आयोजकहरुबीच सहमति भएको बताइन् ।  
सोही कार्यक्रमको आयोजक मध्येकी महिलाका लागि महिलाकी अध्यक्ष जुनु गुरुङले आयोजकहरुबीचको सहमतिमा दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठ नेपाल नर्फिएसम्म पैसा आफूले राखिदिनको लागि लिएको बताइन् । तर दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठले बीचमै “मलाई ४० लाख ५० हजार वन चाहियो” भनेर गुरुङसँग माग्दा गुरुङले अर्का आयोजक नेपाल कोरिया न्युजका प्रधान सम्पादक पुरु जोशीसँग “आमाले यसरी पैसा माग्नुभएको छ के गरौं ?” भनेर सोधेको र जोशीले उहाँको लागि संकलन गरेको उहाँकै पैसा हो उहाँले मागेको भए दिए हुन्छ भनेपछि त्यो पैसा दिएको बताइन् । “त्यो पैसाले त पछि सुन पो किनेको रहेछ” - अध्यक्ष गुरुङले बताइन् । साथै गुरुङले आमाको लागि सामसङ ग्यालेक्सीको एउटा मोवाइल सेट निशुल्क दिएको र अर्काे दिन यस्तै मोवाइल मेरो स्टाफहरुलाई पनि लगिदिनुपर्यो भनेर दिलशोभाले भनेपछि ४ वटा ग्यालेक्सी मोवाइल सेट आफुले खरिद गरेकै दाममा दिदा ४ लाख ४० हजार वन खर्च भएको बताइन् । साथै मार्च २९ तारिख श्रेष्ठ नेपाल फर्किनुपर्ने भएपनि चर्चको विभिन्न कार्यक्रमहरु भन्दै अप्रिल ८ सम्म बसेको उनले बताइन् । 
कार्यक्रममा भएको ब्यानर, प्रमाण पत्र लगायतका सम्पूर्ण खर्चहरु नेपाल कोरिया न्युजले ब्यहोरेको र किम्हेमा संकलन भएको रकमबारे आफूलाई थाहा नभएको अध्यक्ष गुरुङले बताइन् । 
यसरी दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठको लागि संकलन गरिएको रकमबाट कोरियन एयरको हवाई टिकट १० लाख ३० हजार वन आयोजकले कटाएको र बाँकी पैसा उलने व्यक्तिगत कामका लागि खर्च गरेको देखिन आएको छ ।  आयोजकको भनाइलाई आधार मान्दा दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठले सुनमा ४० लाख ५० हजार वन,  मोवाइल सेट ४ लाख ४० हजार वन र ल्यापटप २ लाख ५० हजार वन व्यक्तिगत प्रयोजनमा खर्च भएको देखिएको छ । 
आमाको घर नितान्त व्यक्तिगत रुपमा दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठले सन्चालन गरेकी हुन् । उनले कसैको सहयोगको अपेक्षाले त्यो कामको शुरुवात गरेकी थिइनन् । तर यति हुँदा हुँदै पनि उनलाई जुन प्रयोजनका लागि दक्षिण कोरियाका नेपालीहरुले सहयोग गरेका थिए त्यस काममा पैसा नपुग्दा सहयोगी दाताहरु कोही आक्रोशित छन् त कोही अचम्मित । दिलशोभा श्रेष्ठले व्यक्तिगत काममा खर्च गरेको हो भन्ने भनाइप्रति विश्वास नगर्ने पनि छन् । यसमा संकलित रकम सुरक्षित रुपमा नेपाल पठाउन नसक्नु आयोजकको मुख्य कमजोरी रहेको देखिन आएको छ । 

I feel that Di Shobha is unnecessarily dragged into controversy by this news. I watched the clip (her interview on phone). I don't think there is any reason that Dil Shobha needs to misuse the money. It might have been that her assistants from Nepal may have requested her to bring those gadgets from Korea. So she used the money to buy those that would be compensated by her assistants in Nepal.

nepali haru ko khutta tanne bani kahile nahatne bho.. kasailai ni nachodne bhayo..

where is the clip,

https://youtu.be/6tJVcmtqNag

nepali haru ko dekhaune bani...bichara dil shova...Korea samma bolayera samman garyo tyo ni ramrai ho... aama ghar ko budabudi ko lagi uthayeko paisa samman ma kharcha bhayo tyo chahi ali bhayena

I don't see any misuse here. She spent her own money for needy's before getting funds from others so now if she gets any fund thats hers n she literally used that money for office use, laptops n cells for employees. She didn't use the money to buy drugs or booze or lavish party so I think this thread don't even make sense. Hope all Nepali mothers be like Dil Shova ji. 

Samsung galaxy for employees....
1 year ago she was counting packet of cookies for 70 people...
Go figure

But don't u think she deserves to have a laptop n her hardworking employees a Samsung Galaxy 4S? They work their butt off n might had a cotton picking day a long ago so i think they definitely deserve a break

What dilshova is doing is very noble.
I applaud her efforts and salute her.
Sure she has no education (even though educated people won't have the courage to do what she's doing) but her employees know Samsung galaxy . So they should have some level of education..
I would encourage her to convert her work into a trust and even take salary for her work. It not only makes her organized but transparent too... Her work would be more effective...

Taking salary for a work ya good idea. Yeah u might be right Galaxy is too much for them but u know how Nepalese r they think Iphone, Galaxy etc r great. I don't need no Iphone but a regular phone to call n reach people

Let's first preface this with the fact that about 70-80% of the donated money goes to the administrative cost of any of the world's leading charities. That means, only a fraction of the money you donate thinking it would help a victim goes to actual victims.

What's discussed above is almost the same thing. I don't think people who donated the money thought they were helping Dil Shova to buy 4 Samsungs and what not, but that's the hardcore reality. Charities need to manage administrative cost. We sure wish that a bigger portion would go to the victims but the reality is not the case.

I don't know who is right or wrong, I am just saying that it's a typical "charity" expense.

the funny thing about this kind of complaints is that the ones that normally give do not complain too much but the ones that do not give will have a lot to complain about.

what a waste of money if she really used charity money to buy those fancy phones, you don't fkin need galaxy S for admins running a charity, could have just gotten a regular non smart phone to do the job. misuse at it's height. and it pisses me off even more that i donated to her charity. 

 It's outrageous to misuse charity money for latest gadget (samsung galaxy 4 and laptop) for personal uses. It could be office employee but can't be used such fund for personal purpose if really she want to serve the distress people. This is Nepal, everything can be happened and possible once they are getting substaintial amount of money and support, which help to make people corruption due to lawless country.

Dilshova should have stuck with iphone 4 then people wouldn't have much problem.
The fact is Dilshova has dedicated all her life to look after these helpless individuals. The amount of work and the countless hours of her dedication cannot be measured with monetary values. When you give her donations, you are giving her the money so she can use it as she deems fit.

So one time she decides to get samsung or iphone 5, doesn't mean that her credibility is lost. She is free to make that kind of decision once to reward those who help her all the time.

If you have that much problem with it just don't give it next time. Or wait for the news when Dil Shova decides to take her employees for a decent meal at a 5 star hotel to reward them.

 my opinion is, she asked for the money because she really needed it to help they needy...i, as a donor, expect that she would do the best to keep admin expenses to a minimum and channel the donation to help run her charity and help whoever she is helping out. it  disheartens me to find out that the money i donated is being used to buy fancy phones and I don't see any reason provided  as to why those phones are even needed vs going with a cheaper alternative (it could also be that other people might have donated the phones and that is not being reported if not i duly apologize for assuming). Also, why would a charity require administrators to use a smart phones? do they need to use smart phone apps to contact outside Nepal for donations? why?